i've been married for 2 yrs..i love my husband very much..he's the best husband i could ever have,and he loves me 2..we r very happy with each other..but the prob is sex..we r no more sexually attracted towards each other,we harldy do it like once or twice a month..will it spoil our realtionship ??
2006-12-28 20:47:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is very normal.
http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/tips/cycle.html
Every relationship goes through cycles and you are just in (possibly) the reality phase. Just push through, make sure you keep communication open and I promise that you will come full circle again and see that everything is fine after all.
2006-12-28 21:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not very unusual. This happens in many marriages. Actually sex will no more very frequent when both of you are together. I mean it is not going to be in the way when you were not married.
But you can get spices to make your sex life more pleasant.
Actually our day to day activities, a very busy and hectic life......
have a negative effects towards sex life. Take a break, get out of your city where you can get a fresh air, reserve a hotel room and enjoy your selves. You do really need to relax first so that you can forget about any thing else and you can think about each other.
After you return from your trips you can have even better feeling between your selves.
So do this repeatedly like in the weekends.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-29 05:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lack of physical intimacy often creates problems in marriage, but not necessarily all marriages suffer.
It appears that you and your hubby get along quite well together, perhaps, you could ask him to sit down and talk about this subject and get his perspective on this issue.
You may find that you both want to have sex more often, but can't find a way by yourselves to get intimacy back in your life.
I would suggest that both of you go see a marriage counselor as he may be able to assist in guiding you both back to an intimate relationship.
2006-12-29 07:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an excersize that does help!..
Dont worry about the sex just yet.. but the next time he is in the shower... just get in there with him. And take a shower... Just take showers together.. Also make sure you gow out on dates! picnics... and have pillow talk.
Remember dont worry about the sex part right now! First just reconnect in these simple ways.. and the sex will come back!
Remember sex is not the base of a relationship.. it is the biproduct of a good relationship.. so work on that part first! I promise it will come.
2006-12-29 05:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Esther J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Do you have children? And, did you used to have sex more often? Do you both work long hours? There are so many things that you left out! There could be numerous reasons!
2006-12-29 05:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by ShellBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does most marriages. And there is no magical answer to solve it. Some people manage to stay together in spite of it - some cheat, some don't, some split up. It's very frustrating, and you aren't alone.
2006-12-29 04:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok. doesn't mean once you're married you must have sex with each other every day/night. and stop putting jelly beans into the container every time you have sex. life together is more than just sex. do other stuffs together
2006-12-29 04:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to the gym.... the more you exercise more the stimulation comes.
- It could be routine.
- Too much stress at work
- Surprise him with lingerie
- Or just tell and talk about it
2006-12-29 05:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by John Th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i Go To Say Is Have It!
2006-12-29 05:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley Tisdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to fine a outlet.
2006-12-29 10:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋