2006-12-28 20:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No one can make you feel inferior unless you let them.
2006-12-28 20:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by firerookie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation, where it takes place, how many people are around, etc. I find that ignoring the people who are rude to you and hurtful is the best thing.....people hate to be ignored and it is a great way to get a little revenge at the same time. If this person said or did something extremely hurtful and you feel that it is right to say something to them,...then go for it. Do what feels right for you. I just find that w3hat goes around comes around and eventually, everyone gets what's coming to them.
2006-12-29 07:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one.....I would say something to them at the time of them saying it...something like....Are you trying to hurt my feelings or what? But sometimes it's best to ignore if it isn't someone you see alot.
2006-12-29 04:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no simple answer to this question.
Often it is best to ignore this person if it was deliberately intended to hurt you. If the hurt is not intentional it is often beneficial to go to the person and tell them they hurt you and how; give them the oppurtunity to apologise.
The main thing though is not to get too hung up on it. People hurt you in life intentionally and unintentionally. Dont let it get to you and dont worry about it.
2006-12-29 04:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by rodandalisonthompson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. If they are doing it to try to start a fight, it is best to ignore it. If they say something to hurt ya, u can say hey that was uncalled for..or whatever... n
2006-12-29 04:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who the person is. If its someone you care about then yes you NEED to say something. I think communication is key. If you've tried to reach out to him and he doesn't respond back to you MOVE ON!!! Trust me its a nice way of him saying leave me alone I'm not intrested. You would waste your time thinking otherwise. If its just a random person who u just kinda know who cares, don't loose any sleep over it.
2006-12-29 04:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really better off to ignore them because what goes around comes around.
2006-12-29 04:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
we that person just normal hurtful, ignore it.
but if the person is extremely hurtful, do something. make it suffer for enternity!
2006-12-29 04:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by kito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know! It isn't right for someone to hurt you! TELL THEM NOW! Quit being a doormat!
2006-12-29 04:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by LSD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say it in a jollily way but make sure the person understands the msg.....n if the person said sumfing nasty,try to know why....
2006-12-29 04:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋