I am in love with a married man. Even I am also married. I have already expressed my feeling in indirect way but he has kept quite . Please help my friends how do I tempt him so that he comes over to me and say he also likes me or love me atleast show some gestures where in it makes me feel that he has a soft corner for me.Or how do I come to know that he also has some feelings for me. I need to know, I cannot live in dark.
2006-12-28 20:19:17 · 15 answers · asked by deepali292003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you for real? What you cant find a single man to cheat on your husband? You are pathetic.
2006-12-28 20:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married, he goes home to his wife every night. He is using you for a quick feel good and then he's on his way, right? Why would you want people to help you ruin a mans marriage? Grow up and move on to find your own man and leave everyone else's alone. This is going nowhere good, trust me. Only heartache and more problems will come when you try to have a relationship when you are already married and with a married man. You must enjoy lots of drama.
2006-12-28 23:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run. Run for your life. You do not want a man that considers you a 'replacement'. Much less one who asked you to marry him but runs off without you. You need to stop being desperate, You sound like at 27 you are all washed up and will never marry. Set your heart to enjoy life and being single. I wasted my 20s wanting to marry the wrong guy and finally at 27 realized I was chasing a dream just becasue I wanted to get married and have a family. I started living for myself. Learning to have fun. I earned money, built my own house (literally! surveyed the land, hung sheetrock, installed the toilet....my dad and I worked on it for a year) I bought and paid cash for my first NEW car. I traveled and traveled and traveled. And just when I got all cozy and happy being single I met myn husband. Go out and get a great job or even a mediocre job and save, save, save and then quit and travel and have a few adventrues yourself. Then come home, work, work, work, save, save, save and then quit and travel some more. Get to know who you are and where you are going and set your heart to realize that it is impossible for God's best to be less than His Best and if you are not married at 27 or 30 or 35 it is becasue He has something Better for you down the road. It is up to you wheather you will enjoy the trip down that road or not. Besides, if you are not a whole and complete woman a a single woman you will never find completion in marriage. It is VERY hard work and a onesided marriage will never satisfy. Go live large.
2016-03-16 23:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I can't give help to break marriages. What you want to do is to break two marriages and two families. Let me ask you a question, are there any children involved? If yes, do you think that the children will be happy to have a broken family.
Another question is: Why the heck you married your husband in first hand? So take my advise let be and stay with your family.
But on the other hand if your husband is hurting you and treating you badly then that's another story.
Sorry for not helping you and sorry for being a bit harsh with you but that's my opinion. Good Luck girl and may you choose the right choice
2006-12-28 21:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-23 08:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hashim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are all messed up and need to get your priorities straight. If you are still married, you need to work on that first before you "find" someone else who also happens to be married. He needs to do the same. Give it a shot with your husband (unless he is an abuser) to see if things can be worked out before you destroy something for someone who may cheat on you like he is with his wife now.
2006-12-28 20:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by redy2screm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you !! Apparently this man is not interested in you, if u want to wreck ur own marriage, at least have the decency to
leave his alone. I don`t think ur for real, no one would come on here with a question like that and expect to get positive feedback.
2006-12-28 20:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you already expressed your feelings to him and he kept to himself then he is not interested. and in my opinion you need to express your feelings with your husband and leave this poor man alone. he seems happy where he is at so leave him alone. and when you think about tempting someone to do something that they dont want to do in the first place that my friend is not love!! you dont love him, you are only lusting for him.
go back to your own husband and love him, he is always there for you. i bet he loves you so much that he wants you to love him back. but if you cant do your part as a wife for him then you dont deserve him.
2006-12-28 20:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the answers here are so negative. You don't know her situation. I fell in love with a married man before I even knew he was married. You can't help who you fall in love with. Here is what I did and maybe it will help you. I expressed my feeling to the man and weighed our pros and cons. We knew that was going to be a rough road but come to find out, he loved me just as much as I loved him. We are still together and happy and going on 10 years. My advice, talk to him, I mean really talk to him. Pour your heart out, what do have to lose, not nothing your not willing to give up already. If he really loves you he'll pour his heart out to but it's rare, men tend to want to be hard in front of women. Then you might have a chance. I hope this helped.
2014-09-06 18:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane??????????????
Both of you are married and promised to love, honor and be faithful. What is it you don't understand about marriage???
And if he cheats with you.....he will cheat on you.
Geesh..........where are your morals???
If you want someone else......get out of your marriage before you move on.
2006-12-28 20:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋