my wife of 4 years has gained like 10 pounds every year we've been married, i've been cheating on her forever and treating her like dogshet but she just wont get the message..i didnt sign a damned prenup so now im lookin for away out without losing much to this heffer?
2006-12-28 20:18:03 · 12 answers · asked by TACTICALTAILGATE 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You should have told her up front that you wouldn't be married to a fat broad. She's taking at least half, you know that, don't you?
2006-12-28 21:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know people like you give couples a bad name. Why did you get together in the first place with her? There must be something that attracted you to her besides her body at the time. What counts is the Kindered Spirit that thrives in her, the inner beauty that surpasses all the negativity of what the body give out. . Why don't you get off your butt and help her along the way to help her lose the weight. Look into weight loss and excercise, and eating healthier. Lose the Soda! That is a biggie for all of us. It is really sad that you have cheated on her. Does she know this? If not, it is not fair to her, and you should be upfront with her. Tell her that you are not attracted to her anymore. If you still have feelings for her, than you should try to work things out for her. I don't know, we live in a messed up society and it pretty reaks when men and woman are treated bad, because of their weight. There must be some different reason you are not giving. Look at the guys from the biggest loser. Let them be your guide into helping her out. In the long run, she will thank you so much. Hope this answer your question, but also ridicules you for what you have said.
2006-12-29 04:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by loveandpeace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you didn't leave her home alone bored and depressed and eating all the time while you were "Playing Outside" she wouldn't be fat.
Why did you even marry her it's clear you don't love her or else you would not talk like that about her and would be trying to help her instead.
2006-12-29 04:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by animescifigamer359 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who didnt get a prenup, so i hope she does get the hint, leaves you, takes your money, and finds a man whom treats her good. and by the way. she probably gained weight because you treat her poorly and she didnt need to impress your rude self anymore. or she got comfy with a man on the side who wasnt a jerk. Good luck goin broke.
2006-12-29 04:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u need to help her. maybe she is scared help her loose the weight and Just love her or maybe she is trying to push u away
cause u treat her like that. just stop being so mean to her
2006-12-29 05:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should LOVE and ENJOY what you HAVE, and then you will feel more happy and comfortable with her, the more you love the more she will lose the weight without warning
2006-12-29 04:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you are an inspiration. How did you get to be so sweet?
2006-12-29 05:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by autumn leaf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fool! She's gained weight, so that YOU WILL go somewhere else for it!! You fell for it.. You stupid....SHE rocks!!!
2006-12-29 04:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start putting ExLax in her BonBons... She'll drop a few pounds.
2006-12-29 04:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Chris C 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I hope she takes you to the cleaners.
2006-12-29 04:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by maamu 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋