Why so much hate in this world? Why people have one nightstand? Why so many lies when there' suppose to be trust? Why can't everyone just get a long? Why backstab people?
2006-12-28 20:10:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People cheat on each other because they fall to temptation. Just plain stupidity or uncaring leads to one night stands. But it does happen sometimes. The opposite of hate is love so we need to ask ourselves how many people we hate. Then try to show more love to someone. People have to earn trust and once they have it then it takes work to keep it. Some people just think lying is easier then telling the truth. Then the lies have to go on and on If you are looking for love you will have to find it in your own heart first..before you find it in the world. People just like to fuss and think only of themselves.
2006-12-28 20:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like you are upset. I want to start by saying I'm sorry. :( That always stinks.
I don't know the true reason why people cheat, but I have some ideas:
1. Some people just loose a basic respect in what a relationship is. That could be because of a drastic event in their life, or it could just because they lost a sense of hope, either way, it looks like the one with the biggest loss is the cheater.
2. Some never had the respect. One simple rule: DON'T BE WITH THEM!
3. Some are just stupid. :D lol!
Hope that the last one made you laugh, and I hope that you feel better soon! :)
2006-12-28 20:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by kitties_n_llamas(Becca) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer to why people do what they do---it is all choices they make--we all make them---sometimes good and sometimes bad---we learn from the choices we make---unless a person just decides to always do the lowest, disrespectful stuff because it is easy to do--people scrape bottom because they don't know any better---did you ever notice that cheats and low lifes always hang with cheats and low lifes---you need to steer clear and be a nice person---hang with only the nicest--if you can't find them---you certainly need to expand your horizons as you move on thru life. Do not ponder this question any longer---what you describe is group that has no respect for themselves or anyone else. If you think it is wrong---then walk proud and ignore them---you are certainly on a higher plain.
2006-12-28 20:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is so much hate cus people just cant be satisfied wit what they have.(mans curiosity to always want more out of life)so they go doing things at all cost to get what they want without wantin to know if people are hurt in the process.one nightstand is simply because they are not satisfied wit there galfreinds,a person that those dis is definetly a nympho who feels dat keepin one gal will not satisfy him.there is bound to be lies were there is no trust and wit all dis u should know dat all this centers on mans curiosity for the on none,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-12-28 20:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by noj2nv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the masses about selfishness, but I think it goes a little deeper, people are insecure and afraid. Just think of a scary movie... we close our eyes and turn away from it to someone or something else. We avoid problems, without thinking who it hurts. People are also insecure so they search out for who and/or what they can find security in, or better yet what they can find identity in. Most people are really just trying to figure out who they are and why they are here.
2006-12-28 20:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by General 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who cheat are basically selfish, they don't like their selves, want to blame all of life's problems on their partner. hurting people hurt others. i believe that the way we see god in our lives, is how we will treat others, if we don't love god than we certainly won't abide by his commandments. how we see god will be the way we treat others. maybe they cheat because it is always the way they have handled their problems, going through life, doing dirty underhanded things not caring about the outcome or the heartache of the other .
2006-12-29 00:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a selfish world out here.
2006-12-28 20:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating happens when your to young to understand what love is then when your not so young people cheat because they havent found the right one when you find the right one cheating wont cross your mind
2006-12-28 20:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world is changing everyday, they dont care what people think, they only care for themselves, and for there actions, what they do.
2006-12-28 20:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
selfishness, what she/he doesn't know can't hert. Thats how most people think. Its pure disrespect and evil
2006-12-28 20:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋