Planning to divorce as marriage is horrible. What will be the effect of this on 1 year kid. Being a mother what ways to take to help kid.
worried about kid's future. For a 1 year kid, I could not even discuss kid's idea on the issue.
2006-12-28 20:03:17 · 10 answers · asked by life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the main worry is what to say when kid asks about father. how will i be to looked by society.. how to deal with these situations
2006-12-28 20:14:09 · update #1
It's BETTER to get a divorce when the child is a baby rather than waiting until they get older. A divorce doesn't emotionally affect a baby as it does with older children. If you are going to leave your husband, do it now, rather than later. It's better for children NOT to be in an abusive or dysfunctional home. They will be more affected if you wait.
As far as what society thinks... today is the easiest and most acceptable time in history to be able to get a divorce if you are miserable in marriage. It's soooo common, most people don't even think twice about it. Believe me, the child will suffer more later if you stay in a horrible marriage. Get out now, before the child knows any better. But, if the father is a good dad, it is important the child continues to have a relationship with him. But, if he is abusive, than make sure the child is kept far away from him. As far as what to tell the child later, deal with that when the child asks, (probably around age 6 - that's when my daughter started asking questions.) and then just me honest! (and loving)
P.S. Make sure the father pays you child support. Don't let him get off being a deadbeat dad.
2006-12-28 22:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by L.A.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The younger the kid the better the reason one should divorce rather than stay in a horrible marriage. Normally mother gets custody of very young kid, that means you will get the kid. Make sure you are financially sound to undertake this task or make sure the father is made to pay for support of the kid. Don't be in a hurry to remarry.
2006-12-28 20:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to divorce if u dont like to live with that person n as ur the mother im sure the kid will be given 2 u.Take good care of the child.stay in some relativs house.
2006-12-28 20:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad marriages are often worse for the kids.
Divorcing now is probably a better idea as the kid is too young to understand all the bitterness and fighting that you will go through during the divorce.
If you wait 'til the kid is older it will be worse for the kid, and probably for you too.
2006-12-28 20:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation is totally at a point of no reconciliation, you have only one favourable thing right now - the age of your child.
As the very idea of separation is not at all good for the overall welfare of the child, (you have no options but still, if it is possible) you must try for reconciliation.
Consider the second marriage with a lot of seriousness and always keep the welfare of the child before that of your.
2006-12-28 20:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sound exhausted from dealing with this unhappy situation for so long. You're right, it's not your fault that your husband is the way that he is. A person can only change if they want to and he doesn't appear to even comprehend what is making you so unhappy in this situation. You can only be responsible for yourself and do the best that you can to take care of your children.
2006-12-28 20:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 21:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child is only one years old. He/She will adjust I promise. My children were toddlers and that's all they've known, they have turned out just fine. Just be there for that child and be ready to answer a lot of complicated questions in the future.
2006-12-28 20:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are a product of our upbringing.... if u feel u cant stay with ur husband.. get away from him. as he could not handle you.. he will not handle ur baby. be father of your child and give him good environment . home violence is worst than outside
2006-12-29 20:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by pallavi n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every choice leads to sometihng good as well as bad....and no one can take the decision on bhalf of ne1....but if you r not happy then you cannot make your your kid,surroudins happy as well...talking about long run scenarios.....
2006-12-28 20:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋