I recently was invited to a swimming and slumber party.4 guys including me.All of which ive known since 5th grade(8th now)..but I was gonna be the last one cause the hosts parents were not gonna get there till it got dark(it was around 4)I called and said I was gonna be late,everyone was already there so they would start swimming without me.but then about 5 minutes after hanging up my mom had a change of heart she said I could go.
now its a small community houses are close to each other.Theres never been any crimes of anykind.So all parents feel secure about kids.
my mom dropped me off,i ran to back,and nowone was swimming.So maybe there inside getting changed.I went into living room and heard someone screaming bloody murder!!!
I worked up corage and went to room.i ran in with a fireplace poker,and what I saw was not pretty.All three were on the bed naked.one was being mollested by the other two....
I ran like hell and went home.didint tell anyone.What should I do.im disturbed
2006-12-28 19:55:22 · 27 answers · asked by Aces747 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
oh by the way,sounds stupid but can everyone answering this question answer one i have in polls and surveys.about Dakota Fanning.Thanks...
2006-12-28 20:22:31 · update #1
you need to report tis to the police... even though they are your friends they shouldve known better.... who knows what toherin things they could be doing to someone right now! and please talk to your prents about it. and let the host parents know as well what when on and report it to the place. peopel liek them done deserve to be running around liek maniacs loose on the streets... please tell soemone...
2006-12-28 20:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is Nothing you can't tell your mother about.
So you had a scare. Talk to her about the sight, the shock. How you felt at the time. Pretend you are a reporter. In real life, your mother is a secret adult, and has been around and formed opinions and given birth. She will have a perspective on the politics & economics of the whole scenario. She may have her own view on whether the town planner needs to know about this incident in fifteen years time.
On the other hand, she might ask you over breakfast if you enjoyed the party & you might say "It wasn't as enjoyable as I'd hoped, but I'm glad I went along in the end & met others. Some are OK, some aren't as nice as I wished they would be. Were you ever at a party that didn't live up to your hopes, Mom?"
2006-12-28 20:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by WomanWhoReads 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is very disturbing to hear that this kind of thing happened, and you knew all of them.
I would definitely tell your parents, and then they will initiate the call to the police, for you to make a statement. This will help the boy who was the victim, and by saying something, you're helping the victim deal with this incident, too.
I would re-think wanting to continue being friends with the other two boys. Who's to say they won't try that on you, at some point?
You need to be very careful of who you become friends with, and tell them that what they're doing is wrong, if you're around kids who do the same thing, even if they're messing around!!
You really need to talk to someone about this too. It's not just to help the victim, but it will help you, too.
By not saying anything, it will eat away at you for years!! You'll have nightmares, and feel unsettled, especially if you're around the victim, after this happened, without saying anything.
I'm surprised HE didn't say anything as of yet!
In any case, please go talk to your parents and then to the police! You'll be saving this friend's life, and he can talk openly about it to someone, and he can start the healing process!!
2006-12-30 17:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should tell somebody.
even in a small community, scandals take place.
keeping silent will only give your friends the impression that they wont get caught the next time(s).
youre NOT safe with them,
theyve already molested their own friend.
if you still cant believe what youve seen,
you can try to talk to the boy that was molested,
maybe if you get him to open up to you,
you can be sure of what you saw.
if i were you tho, id try to avoid a confrontation with the other 2,
you never kno what theyre capable of.
if you do decide to tell,
let the RIGHT PEOPLE KNOW.
think about who would do the most about the situation,
and who would best handle the problem.
the cops, a teacher, your parents, are all good choices.
and if youre still disturbed by what you saw,
there's counselors, people to talk to, people who want to help you all around.
good luck, and i hope everything works out..!!
2006-12-28 20:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by ajakhatarinaak47 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want these two guys to get along with this you should report them, What about if you are the next? This is an insane attitude and a crime, don't be accomplice with your silence, step ahead and report them, many other people will thank you, perhaps they aren't you real friends, may be in the future they will thank you too. Can you imagine how many other can you save? Talk to your parents first and tell them what you wanna do, they'll support you for sure, something like this can't be with out punishment.
2006-12-28 20:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Javy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, I'm very sorry to hear that. But what you need to do is to tell somebody, like your parents. Your friend wouldnt be mad. If your a real friend you will let somebody know. Think about if that happened to you. You would probably want someone to tell because it shows that they care and you would want the other two guys to get in trouble. They had no business doing that to your friend. totally wrong and they had no permission to put their hands on him. You know as well as I do, If you got there earlier, it wouldnt of happened. Be a good friend and do the right thing. God watches over you and if you do good you get good, do bad get bad and it will haunt u for the rest of your life.
2006-12-28 20:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by *Alicia* 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you friends comminted at least 2 serious offenses
1. They commited rape this is illegal and they should be taken care of and they need to get help.
2. If they are in 8th grade i doubt they are at least 18 (if they are they got held back a lot. they commited underage sex.
You need to tell the authority's about this your friend's need to be prosecuted they need help. I hope you do the rigth thing and if you decide to tell the authorities then i hope you talk to your parents first
Most likely if you don't they will rape another innocent girl and she is doing nothing to deserve it. If you don't stop it now who Know's what will happen next
2006-12-29 05:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell the police before it's too late, cuz if she tells and says you were there and didn't do anything, then you could get in major trouble, then by your last statement, (the additional details) it sounds like you dont care much, and you never know if it was rape or not, she could have been screaming as in joy screaming your only what 13 or 14!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 08:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the cops. Then your parents and then apologize for not helping the girl out. You should've used that fireplace poker on those 2 boys. I would've. Tell their parents as well and tell the girl you'll testify on her behalf.
2006-12-29 01:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible! You should talk to the victim and see what he wants to do and support him. That had to be very traumatic for him. You were a witness. I would stay away from all of them in fear the same thing may happen to me some day. Man, I am in shock from reading that. I don't know what to say. I don't think you should do nothing, though.
Good Luck!
2006-12-28 20:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure? How can two naked boys molest a third boy in bed?
Are you sure it wasn't just horseplay, while they were getting undressed? Well, I do not know. Seems a bit out of this world. certainly you should tell your parents, who should contact the other boys' parents.
After all, you shouldn't have to have contact with boy-molesters, now do you.
2006-12-28 20:10:30 · answer #11 · answered by dane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋