2006-12-28 19:48:20 · 16 answers · asked by Friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You made a commitment and a vow to stay with your mate. Don't throw away what you think might be for what you have. If this other person is truly your soulmate time will tell. Stay with your marriage.
2006-12-28 20:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Who talked you into marrying someone NOT your soulmate?
Oh that's right, you CHOSE to marry this woman.
Stop inflicting your wonderful self on her, divorce, and run off with the soul mate, so that you can go through it all again 2 years from now.
2006-12-29 05:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't meet your soulmate, you met someone who is telling you what you want to hear about yourself. Marriage is work, your "soulmate" and you will soon have the same problems as you do in your current marriage and you will meet someone who thinks you are really neat and then they will be your "soulmate". You need to let you r partner know now that you can't stick it out and that you are going to go with the one who treats you good today so that she can get on with her life and not worry about what she did wrong. You are weak and lazy. Really, I wouldn't say it if it wasn't true,
2006-12-29 03:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
how do you know the person u marry now not ur soulmate? if the two of u cannot work get a divorce. dont make your life pain have some happiness and move on.
2006-12-29 03:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, it feels like your world comes to an end, then it actually does end (everyone you love gets hurt and that takes a long time to heal) then you build your own world. I believe we all have a soul mate - i met mine, by pure fluke! now we are together and we both feel the same. All things happens for a reason - just dont try and find out too much about that reason, it wont make sense.
2006-12-29 03:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're married because you "have to"? Well, if that's the case, divorce ur husband/wife and go for your soulmate.
2006-12-29 03:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Godson D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay with your spouse. You made a vow, a covenant, a promise, and a commitment to her. Through better or for worse, rich or poor. If you found out that this woman whom you call your soul mate isn't really the one in 5 or 10 years, then what? Find a new soul mate. It is a vicious circle my friend. Stick with your wife, you are married for a reason.
2006-12-29 03:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by General 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well if you truly feel the one you met while being married is your soul mate you have to tel lthem and then get a divorce because you could not possilbly stayed married to someone who was not the one for you!
2006-12-29 04:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy for everyone to say divorce fact of the matter is you can be happyily married and in love and then yes your soal mate comes along people dont often marry there soal mate but are friends for life with them as well as carrying on a ahppy marriage with someone else it happens to alot of people,having a soal m ate doesnt mean they are your true love a soal mate is someone you can rely on for the rest of your life through your life experiences
2006-12-29 04:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where polyamory comes in handy. You made a pact with your spouse that you would never leave them. Don't. Let the spouse know that you think you found another soul mate (use the word 'another') and want to take time to find out if it's true.
I can't define how your relationship will work, but so long as you love your spouse and you honestly think that this other person is your soul mate, it might be possible to be with both people. (I recommend making sure that everyone knows about it and is cool about it.)
2006-12-29 04:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋