Some People Think I Am Ugly AND Its So Sad When They Say i Am I Dont Know What To Do People At School Say It Not To My Face But You Know Sometimes Behind My Back Just Please HELP!
2006-12-28 19:47:14 · 25 answers · asked by ♥ April; MX4LIFE! ♥ 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
f*ck them. live your own life.
2006-12-28 19:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by General T 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
This is a classic act of bullying. It is not an acceptable part of life. It is unnecessary also.
There are many websites out there that can help with this problem. In the search bar type in bullying and you will be shocked. I've been working with this problem in our area here for the last 5 years and when I first started looking I didn't find anything out there and then wow all of a sudden this took off.
There is a play called Bang Bang your Dead and it is at bangbangyourdead.com. You can go there and read the play...if you are lucky get your drama class to perform it. It's very powerful.
If they say your ugly, they have found the one area in your mind and life that you have had some questions or concerns about and it is now a weak part of you. Instead of letting them tear you down and talk behind your back worry, try rising up by offering suggestions to your school on how to stop this action. You will be surprised at how receptive most schools are to someone who wants to stop the circle.
You can also find your local alternatives to violence and go and talk with a member there. They have so much information to give out to people who need help and support.
You will be surprised to know that most bully's by the time they are 21 have already been in jail once. And by the time they have a wife there is usually some form of abuse and then the kids get involved in the abuse and the cycle starts over.
Keep yourself away from their ways, yours are much better. Beauty is what you want it to be, in your heart, on your sleeve or with your looks. But if you really want to succeed, be yourself and it will shine...it already has, you asked for help.
2006-12-28 20:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are hurting you and that is not right at all. What are their problems is anyone of them a slut? Or on drugs? Or are they so hot? Maybe find out what is in their closet and expose them.
I would not hang with those folks they sound like real losers, find better friends. And maybe bigger ones that will beat their butts.You are beautiful inside. Do you know why? Because you are on this web site sharing with strangers your feelings with honesty and hope, and that makes you more beautiful than most. So pat yourself on the back for once and realize your own qualities and dont be sad, be happy. Karma depicts you will have a happy life if you believe, that you are as beautiful as your thoughts so dont let them take your joy, or rain on your picnic ever again. You are loved and you don't care about those that will come and go in your life. And better they go than come right?
So tell them to Step off and push on and then you split the scene without a word. Happy New Year kid.
2006-12-28 19:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's high school. People are mean and all but the most popular get picked out. It's a drag, but it's true. Second, cultivate a group of friends who will be true to you and see the beautiful person you are. I know it's trite and not what you want to hear, but in the long run it is who you are inside that matters and makes you truly beautiful. Third, act as if you believe you are beautiful. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed. Again, I know this is easier said than done, but just remind yourself. And don't capitalize every word in a sentence - capitals are only used for the first word in a sentence and proper nouns.
2006-12-28 20:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by jane7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a friend you trust, which isn't that easy to come by, ask what they think would improve your looks. And remember that the older you get the more you change. Some beautiful young people grow into worried and haggard adults. It's the luck of the draw! If nothing else for now, look in the mirror and figure out what makes you unattractive. If it's something really noticeable, maybe a doctor can help. I believe in plastic surgery for people who have a big drawback that makes them insecure. It's so easy for people to tell you not to be insecure, but that's easy for THEM to say. You feel the way you feel. Your life is in YOUR hands, not theirs.
2006-12-28 20:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. I know it is hard. Kids picked on me all the time in school....and now, after a couple years, the ones I run into don't even recognize me and are ashamed of themselves for the way they acted. Keep your head up and be strong. School doesn't last forever...just avoid the drama, make some close friends who have your back no matter what, and just blow the rest off. The ones talkingtrash may be decent looking on the outside, but honey, on the inside they aren't half as beautiful. Remember that. Beauty comes from the inside.
2006-12-28 19:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by rissagirl05 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can change your appearance with a new hairstyle, new make up procedures, and clothing. Make an appointment with a beauty consultant for a complete make over. If you can't afford that then buy some beauty magazines with make over instructions in them. You will be surprised to find that you are not ugly..... as you seem to think. That's half the problem right there....your self esteem. I have never seen you, but I can tell you that you are not near as bad as you have convinced yourself you are. Stop listening to others opinions....because that's all it is....opinions. Now go buy a couple of magazines, hit the make up section of Wal Mart, get your hair cut and styled...and change a few pieces of clothing around.......and you will be beautiful.
2006-12-28 20:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by slick chik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe that one day you will be done with all of those shallow people. Don't let them get to you. Some people will find a way to pick on you no matter what you look like. I wasted sooooo much time worrying about what people thought of me. I wish I has all that time back!
2006-12-28 20:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jenr R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to dress properly& be good to everyone and tell them that by being beautiful from face doesn't really bother you b'coz it is what is natural.(it is not what u asked for)and try to present ur self in a better way so that others can say that looks doesn't really matters. means be carrer-oriented,read more books or newspapers 2 update urself with current affairs.
2006-12-28 20:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by pals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is there problem not yours. Hmmm! methinks they may be showing signs of the green eyed monster. You hold your head high girl, and get those shoulders back. What can't physically hurt you makes you stronger - try to remember that. They are being nasty to hide there own inadequacies. Good luck!
2006-12-29 10:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till 20 u have the face your born with , after 20 u get the face u deserve !!
so relax dont think too much about the losers .
2006-12-28 20:03:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋