I am being totally serious. I want to know if there is a drug you can take that nullifies the sex drive to the point that you don't think about it anymore. I'm sick and tired of trying everything in my power to be with someone and it never working out. All it does is make me feel awful and alone and in so much pain. I am sick of people saying they love me and then lying about it. I have been led on and hurt so many times that I can't take it anymore. I want it to go away. I'm sick of having it and I'm sick of dealing with it. Whatever it is that makes me so undesirable to women, I'm sick of trying to find it. I try everything: fat or skinny; smart or dumb; happy or sad; aloof or gregarious; funny or serious. How I dress and act and talk and finally throwing all pretense away and just being me. And no one gives a ****. I just want it to go away because there is not one women who gives a **** whether I live or die. I am totally serious. Please help me.
2006-12-28 19:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am on antidepressants and work with a pysch M.D. But here's the thing. They don't help. I still feel this need to have these desires and they only screw up my life. If I get rid of it, maybe I can work on the more important aspects of my lifee and come back to sexual desire later. That's why I want tit. Oh and the person who said I was pathetic: SCREW U! I hope that one day you have a serious problem and some makes fun of you. Karma is a ***** and you just racked up some serious points. Loser.
2006-12-29 16:17:34 · update #1
Pathetic!!! Depoprovera shots kill sex drive ,but it sounds like u need anti depressants.
2006-12-28 20:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl143_dk 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is chemical castration, and some anti-depressants will also lower your sex drive.
Frankly, though, if I were you I would try group therapy. It's a group of people you meet with every week, in front of a therapist, and you essentially practice your people skills with a trained person watching you interact. Everyone will call you on whatever actions you take that alienate women, and there are women there who will give you feedback on what you can do.
I feel for you. I know it's difficult. I hope you will hang in there and get some help.
I'm surprised no one has mentioned this, but if it's only sex you want, there are always prostitutes, but that's a lonely way to go.
2006-12-29 04:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
zoloft, celexa, paxil, prozac, lexapro... and other such antidepressants. if you are feeling hopeless, speak with a psychologist, who can refer you to a psychiatrist if it is necessary, and you should have consistent therapy sessions to supplement any drug you may take.
the antidepressants may do something 'better' than decrease your sex drive, however, and may help you work on the deepest parts of yourself that need to gain the confidence and self-understanding in order to become happy and fulfilled. maybe it is a win-win situation if you actually seek out the help!
i know that the first step of seeking this help is hard. but it might be the best thing you have ever done for yourself. if you are a student, check with your school's therapy/counseling program, if not, do a search for health clinics in your area that charge on a sliding scale. you can help yourself if you put the effort into it.
2006-12-29 08:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by iwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just masturbate and imagine any partner you want. No foreplay or kissing after either.
2006-12-29 04:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋