2006-12-28 19:11:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
hmmm...well after years and years and years i don't think about her too much but every now and then i do..you cannot forget them ,they will sneak into your thoughts every once in awhile but you will live believe me,life goes on...
2006-12-28 19:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to forget? Reading , writing, painting. But those are good only for a short period of time. You shouldn't forget the one you loved most, you should keep her/him in your heart as a friend, as a part of you. It isn't hard to remember (it's hard to forget), good memories hurt more than the bad ones do. In the end you can't forget the one you loved, it's like forgetting your name. Remember him / her, smile, think that you've learned something and go on, live your life.
2006-12-29 03:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Catia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest factor is that we always think that "i cannot think of anything else;I cant love anyone else;I cant forget him/her". We make it difficult for ourselves. We make our own boundaries. We start thinking the this is the only form of love that exists.We negate other forms of love like love for our mother, father, sister , for oursleves.We do not think about the moments that would come after say few years. We always jointhe dots forward. We should always join the dots backwards.What if that "osmeone u love' dies tommorow. Then you would accept his/her death and after few days n months of mourning will continue.Also, we forget about the ones who love us.We take them for granted.We say"they will never go from our lives.They will coninue loving us".The best part to forget the one you love is to realise and face his/her parting and cry as much and feel the whole process.One should not escape from the feeling.If you feel like crying, cry, screaming, scream.Slowly an slowly you would realise that the pain is leaving your heart and will never return.The trick is to feel the whole process of suffering with an awakened mind.then it will become an expierience for you to learn...
2006-12-29 03:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by route ur heart to osho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget you will not your loved one...but you can reduce the suffering quite a bit. And you can do it by crying...let your pent up emotions a vehicle to escape.
2006-12-29 04:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emancipate yourself from mental slavery. None but yourself can free your mind. If you really want to forget, only you yourself can control that. Or try remembering the good times, and feel happy about them.
2006-12-29 04:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to forget but to forgive. Treasure the time and love the love.
2006-12-29 03:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by patty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to forget. Appreciate all the good times that were.
2006-12-29 03:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by ∂ίятУ ℓάυиḋгÿ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget? Why would you want to forget?
2006-12-29 03:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just it. its to hard to remember and to guilty to forget. but time heals all, but in some cases imposible
2006-12-29 03:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by devsmash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you knew the answer to that question you would be a very wise person... that question haunts us all,
i miss some really badly. but its driving me mad. can't sleep can't eat .no ambitions now .time the great healer so they say ,
2006-12-29 03:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by roy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋