I was told that people born under virgo have a hard time forgiving, I am a Libra with Virgo rising, I want to forgive people when they do something to really make me mad, but I can't, I feel like it's the same as telling them it's okay do it again, how can I stop feeling like this????? I want Jesus to forgive me when I die, but I can't forgive, I'm in trouble...sigh.
2006-12-28 18:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Robin W 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
hey there fellow virg...i am a virgo..pretty much smack dab in it..my bd is on the 15th of september....and i too do find it hard to forgive ppl....i think it is because under the virgo sign we are a generous type...we do everything we can to make everyone happy....but when someone crosses that...we basically dont want to even attempt to try again because we give ourselves whole heartedly and dont want to be hurt or used again....and i am bad about it i know...because once someone has crossed me..thats it i am done,,,change all you want but i aint lettin ya back in...i dont like it either but its just something that is set up that way for some sort of protection...jesus will forgive you...he understands our issues...you may not be able to forgive but you can always work on releasing
2006-12-28 19:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by michele m 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness has nothing to do with your sign or with any other zodiac for that matter.. The pain was just too much for you to handle. You wanted to get even. You wanted to up the ante. You wanted to have an excuse not to forgive.
The only reason for this lies not as much as you wanted to forgive but on the amount of hate and anger that you have in you.As long as you have it, you Will not be able to forgive.
Make sure that you are ready to let go. Ask for guidance from above. This things take time so do not force yourself. You are never ready until you are ready.
2006-12-28 18:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by miguel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every Virgo I have known has a hard time forgiving. But each one of us has at least 1 major fault. Jesus forgives you every time you ask him too. Remember?
2006-12-28 21:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hy, let me Tell you there are no trouble sigh.if there are trouble we make it are self,in stead of being NEGATIVE think of being POSITIVE.And what you said about JESUS HE will forgive you don't worry Hun,all ready GOD,JESUS have forgiven you.next time you will see some things NEGATIVE happening well change it in a POSITIVE.You say you want to forgive people when there doing something that makes you mad and you say you can`t,its like telling them it`s okay do it again,1 try to forgive them, is not telling some one its okay what they did,but you have to forgive in life you no,its not that you excuse the things that they did to you, but you have to for give them any way.JESUS had forgiven Judas because he went and tell were JESUS was that knight.JESUS has forgive him what he did,but HE didn't`t forget is actions.Its because were all precious children to GOD eyes.so stop blaming yourself you have to be 2 people to start a fight or saying bad things to each other.Pray GOD to help you to forgive,talk to GOD he wont bite you HE understand us.so don't be afraid ask HIM for help any time HE will.Don't forget to be POSITIVE because its going to bring you POSITIVE people to you.You will make a big different in this world.MAY GOD BLESS YOU.And don't forget that you are one of the PRECIOUS DAUGHTER OF GOD.But this is my opinion,now its you and only you could decide what to do now.
2006-12-29 05:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by cilia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Astrologers look for more than one piece of evidence in a chart before coming to a conclusion like the one you make here.
This looks like a major issue so I would be looking in your chart for a major opposition, maybe even a 'kite' constellation.
horoscopeschat is a free msn message board where someone might explore these issues with you.
2006-12-28 20:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by limey_not_lime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Virgo and I definitely hold grudges I am trying to change
2006-12-28 18:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I forgive!! That's not true at all, it's just you.
2006-12-29 08:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋