My husband has sole custody of our children because I was in an accident which separated me from them due to hospitalization. . He is not abiding by judgement requiring him to provide access (telephone #, address, email). To fight him in court, I have to travel 900 mioes and I am disabled, making it hard for me. I represented myself out there last month. His goal is permanent custody. The longer he keeps me separaterd from them, without relationships - the better it is for him. He has kidnapped my kids. I haven't been able to speak to them on phone since June 2004. He has moved them through 3 cities. I have only been able to track them through the schools. I'm not from there (were on military posting there) and have no friends or family there. I don't qualify for Legal Aid - have been denied 3x. Legal clinics haven't helped. My member of parliament said could not get involved in court matters.
2006-12-28 18:14:47 · 6 answers · asked by Raindrop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow, what a guy... took advantage of you when you were in the hospital and has been repeatedly moving since. one thing is for sure, he is getting a full dose of what being a parent (full time) is. its not kidnapping, due to the situation i think. if there was nothing in writing, i'd even call the FBI on his azz.
if you dont comply with a court order, the police are just going to tell you that you have to take it back to court. they dont enforce court orders...just the laws.
it is possible to file a motion and put in a request for you to testify via the telephone. i have seen it in court when someone lives far away, is disabled, etc.
call the county court clerks office (where you live and his county court clerks office too) and ask how to do this.
if you are required to show up, contact some local churches and county disability advocates offices. they can help with transportation or room and board (volunteers willing to open thier homes). some offer help, some dont.
if you have no luck there, write the judge who signed the court order. explain (short letter) that you were in the hospital (no long story, that just makes judges angry for 'wasting their time') your husband temporarily took the kids and has since run off with them moving several times. ask him if you can file a motion (pro se) and testify via the telephone.
a few options for you. now, you have phone calls to make...
stay strong, your kids need you to be :)
2006-12-28 18:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 15:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by gilbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write to the senator of your home state and the homestate of your x's residence. As far as the travel part i would do anything for the sake or my kids even if it's risking my life
2006-12-28 18:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by sngozig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The longer he has them the harder it will be for you to get them back. You might seriously want to snatch them and run. There is help out there...
2006-12-28 18:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello! earth to you... what about the POLICE. if he has kidnapped your children, the police or FBI should be involved. they will bring them back to you.
2006-12-28 18:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray to god b4 u make any move....do ur best....don give up hope....u'l succeed.....u hav my support....
2006-12-28 18:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋