I don't feel like I will ever be truly happy w/ my husband.
2006-12-28 18:06:21 · 23 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married 3 1/2 yrs.
2006-12-28 18:14:49 · update #1
He doesn't spend too much time w/ our kids.His extra time is spent on the computer, he rarely help clean the house, his mom controls him, he doesnt want to get a better job, he's putting us in debt, and the list goes on.
2006-12-28 18:20:05 · update #2
He claims he never cheated on me.
2006-12-28 18:21:34 · update #3
A good husband is only interested in your happiness. You are not doing him any favors by staying unhappy. Tell him! If it is something that can be fixed, work on it. If not get out while the BOTH of you still have time to find some happiness.
2006-12-28 18:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage can be great, but it takes work. Have you asked him if he's happy, or is it all about you? There are two people in a marriage. You've got quite a list of grievances. Does your husband have a list? Maybe he should make one. Then you can sit down together and compare lists, addressing each item one by one and see what happens. If all these things are wrong with him, why did you marry him in the first place? Or did he hoodwink you by pretending to be someone he isn't?
2006-12-29 02:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. How long have you been married? Do you have kids? Is he abusive? Is he a jerk? What's the source of the problem? Without at least this much information, no one can give you good advice. Frankly, not feeling happy can mean a hundred different things, of which most can be fixed and only a few should be answered with a divorce.
2006-12-29 02:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm unhappy" doesn't cut it. NOBODY can MAKE someone else happy. Did you get married to "get happy"? Wrong reason. You certainly are not going to get happy in divorce court. You may need some time to think about your own life and motives. Get happy with yourself first. See a councilor, do a little meditation, get in touch with the deep-within-you self.
2006-12-29 02:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think three years is a little early to check out. But if you like the idea of dating and meeting someone that can make you happy I think you should try
2006-12-29 02:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by aswad h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends, first of all do you have any kids? if so how old are they? if they are out of the house then it wouldnt affect them as much, but when children are growing up, it can dramatically affect their life when their parents divorce so if it is just mild discomfort with your husband, then I would stay married but if you cannot stand it and it has been like this for a while, wait another month, then the desicion is yours.
2006-12-29 02:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Zach H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u not happy? u havent explain that, is ur husband cheating or financially broke? thats a lot of unanswered question, anyway, if u think that u really unhappy with ur marriage find out the cause and if still cant fix it, then move on...find ur true happines, life is short...
2006-12-29 02:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel like you'll ever be happy with him then you're not satisfied or he just isnt doing it for you! Get out there and see whats better.You only live once...live right..live happy. Dont settle for less only the best! :) Good Luck Sweety, Happy New Years.
2006-12-29 02:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you desire to marry him? Look for the good in the marriage. How long have you been married and try to build on that. Pray and speak with your husband.
2006-12-29 02:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by hawleysangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you should stay married. You deserve to be happy. If it isn't with him, so be it. Move on and look for your true happiness, by yourself or with someone else. Life is too short. God Bless.
2006-12-29 02:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋