Joe’s worried about his health and he’s after a woman he met overseas--his sister-in-law’s cousin who is excited about a better life in the US. His words to her: “Yes, I do a lot of brain work at school. And I know that you do not do much brain work. But I don’t look for a woman who is like me-she I could find in America. I look for a different type of woman, one with a warm and loving heart, who wants to make a happy, restful home for me. I want a woman who is kind, who doesn’t like to argue or fight, but who will always take care of her man-if I am healthy or sick. And I will promise to take care of my woman with money and protect her and help her mother. I want a woman with a big heart, not a big brain. I want a woman who can help me relax and smile and laugh, and always be helpful and true to me. And I will promise to be true and faithful to her, and care for her so she does not need to work hard or worry about money. That is what I’m looking for, and what I promise.”
2006-12-28 17:57:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sounds nice for the old guy.miserable though when she wants to be around those of her age......You sound lonely.JOE ! She will get her papers and use you but it seems that you are asking for this........
THERS A STRANGE FUTURE HERE.......
2006-12-28 18:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess all relationships are a contract in some way, "you do this for me, and I'll do this for you..." It doesn't sound like they're looking for love, it sounds like they each need something. It may work out. Because of the language barrier, I would be careful that each person understands what the other is seeking, and that they both have good values. That is, the man is not abusive and is not looking for a servant, and the woman is not going to sleep around and is honest.
The difference in intelligence is not so bad, actually. Many people get their intellectual stimulation at work and don't need it at home.
We marry for love in our society, but for centuries, and still in other places, people married/marry for position and success. So this might work.
2006-12-28 20:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. There are a lot of differences in the thinking, health (the guy is much too old) and the biggest difference is generation gap. The couples will feel that they can ovecome all this but when the actual test come, we will be able to knoe if they can overcome all these problem.
2006-12-28 21:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the younger woman is likely looking for a roof over her head and money and soon as he gets too sick to do anything about it she will be fooling around with young men. wise up, young women dont love old men.
2006-12-28 18:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋