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2006-12-28 17:56:31 · 15 answers · asked by just for fun 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i got this question from that episode of thats' 70s show!
2006-12-28 17:57:37 · update #1
I never would
2006-12-28 17:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that. Will definitely do it again! It's not cheating. Just the opposite in fact, because to "cheat" means to deceive or steal something that rightfully belongs to someone else. In our marriage, we don't value sexual exclusivity the way others do. I know that sounds horrendous, but it just means that while we respect sex as a tool we use for communicating with one another (meaning that we still MAKE LOVE to one another, and it's not just unemotional screwing), we don't feel that sexual attraction is an appropriate expression of the kind of love we share. We accept that it's just human nature to be attracted to others, and we are realists: attraction to others does NOT go away just because you might be in love with one person. That's just a matter of your body doing what it was designed to do...which is to be sexually attracted to other people. It's just illogical that we would stack the cards against ourselves by pretending that this attraction doesn't exist. Makes more sense to address it as an issue that must be dealt with, and figure out what we want to do. We decided that it made more sense to harness this sexual energy rather than allow it to corrode our relationship from the inside out. So now we use it to build more emotional intimacy between us, because this is something that we share, and it is a gift we give one another. It's not something we do for our own selfish desires.
2006-12-29 14:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Fantasy's are perfectly human and natural. Your spouse or other should be the one person you can express yourself to and for no matter what. I would rather be there and have an open relationship and know what my man is doing than him hide it. I think it would be very freeing to know you can let all your inhibitions go and just be yourself and enjoy each other.
I admire relationships that allow such trust.
2006-12-28 18:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im always willing to try new things. If my partner was ok with it I wouldnt mind, of course just like other things it would have to be done with moderation.
2006-12-28 18:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by malditosnapper 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're casually dating and NOT serious, then whatever floats your boat,but if you're in a serious relationship & you or your partner are "using" this to "strengthen" your relationship ,then NO, it is just a recipe for jealousy,deceit,and heartbreak.
I would never do it!!
2006-12-28 18:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO WAY...it doesn't make any sense to me..it's like just having sex with random ppl..so slutty for me...ill pass..
AND..i wudn't like my husband/BF having sex with some other girl either
2006-12-28 17:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Swingers are for married couples ... other than that, it's still cheating.
2006-12-28 17:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've had the opportunity once and declined...
2006-12-28 17:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He** no, I married my husband because I love him not someone else.
2006-12-28 18:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by amazon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I could never do that
2006-12-28 18:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't want a man who wants that in his life.
2006-12-28 18:01:03 · answer #11 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋