A ex-friend asked me out of the blews if I had a crush on her, and she knew Iwas into boys and I had never made a pass on her, so I was kind of confused as to why she asked me this, she said my mannerisms fitted the descriptions of a person who might be gay-but I thought her saying that was kind of ridiculous, as said I haven't made a pass at her, I have just been a very good friend, and always making sure she was doing good in school; and tried to make her laugh so she wouldn't worry about school too much. Some say, she might of had feelings for me,but she did have a guy friend that she dated-either way, what is your opinion?
2006-12-28 17:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...well, it's pretty obvious that she really likes you alot, and she was probably testing the waters, so to speak, to see if you felt the same way about her...
...i'm sure you were a bit dumbfounded by her question, but i don't beleive you should be aggravated or upset,...if anything, take her question as a compliment, and calmly explain to her that you're not interested in that type of relationship,...i'm sure she'll understand, and you'll still have a friend...best wishes for the new year...
2006-12-28 21:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to ask. I know TONS of "straight" girls who adamantly insisted they were straight until they met the right girl... like my current girlfriend of three years. There is nothing wrong with asking a question... unless you think that being gay is somehow bad and you're offended... in which case that is your problem, not hers. People often ask me if I'm straight or a lesbian, and I just give them the honest answer (I'm bi). Nothing wrong with asking a question.
2006-12-29 15:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my girl she likes you and although you have not show interest on her she is confused for your kindness maybe no one has beeing nice or kind to her dont worry if you are not in to her just say no honey this here is too much 4 u
2006-12-29 03:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by revolution 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be flattered. It shows you are an attractive person. And she was polite enough to ask and give you the opportunity to decline.
2006-12-29 03:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you and she was just trying to find out if you felt the same way about her.
2006-12-29 02:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her why! Maybe she's just getting the wrong idea.
2006-12-29 01:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she's hoping deep down inside that maybe u do and she would like to be with you... just a thought, also she could be bicurious and is just trying to find out her sexuality point, see if ur willing to experiment... idk as i said just a thought...
laterz, Steph (^_^)
2006-12-29 03:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by rainbow_illusions 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋