Well, bare with me here
I really love this girl and liked her for about 2 years, she liked me for about 2 months back last january but i didnt make a move because of limitations by my parents and myself. When we liked eachother and talked during school and stuff i felt complete but she started going out with another guy because i never really did anything. Now we are best friends and i love her more and more as the days pass. She still goes out with the same guy.
I am currently miserable and searching for meaning other than this girl. or maybe im waiting for another chance.
Am I overly obsessed? How do i change this!?
I apologize for any mis-categorizing
2006-12-28 17:32:08 · 8 answers · asked by hardrockr1010 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are somethings in life what just pass right in front of your face and there isn't a thing you can do about it. You can try to catch it, but it's like the wind. You can see it, but you can't touch it. Love is a complicated thing because it takes two people. Love is a mixture of all feelings, the one that is the most complicated and hard to describe. Hang in there, healing the heart takes time and effort.
2006-12-28 17:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't have a problem with You or the fact that you moved anything - she has a problem with acknowledging her "problem" that got her into jail. You see, if things stay the SAME when she returns - it was as if she never left and as if she never did anything wrong in the first place. Knowing things are the SAME is a psychological hiding spot for your wife. It is a security blanket for her and it helps her to hide her guilt from herself. She needs to be told that just because she is on the inside doesn't mean the OUTSIDE has to be frozen in time to make her feel better. Life has to go on for everyone and the kids need to feel like life has moved on. The outside isn't on HOLD for her. So, don't feel guilty or bad - you are doing what is right. You can break your promise - because that's not much of a promise anyways - we all have to make adjustments - even to our own promises. Sometimes it is difficult to see into the future and to see that a promise may have to be broken due to circumstances. Understand that BOTH of you are PARTNERS in an EQUAL relationship and that she can't always have HER WAY on decorating decisions. The two of you have input. Good for you for taking good care of the kids :)
2016-03-28 23:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you recognize what is going on...believe me I am an EXXPERT seriously...stay friends with her maybe now is not the time but continue the friendship. just because she is dating this guy does not mean it is going to last. if you conitinue to have feelings for her as time progresses hopefully they will break up if not talk to her and be upfront but not pushy. Be honest. if it is meant to be it will happen if not there is someone else meant for you so don't obsess over it. I f she does not have feelings for you accept it and thank her for not getting in your way...seriously everyone has been in your place before and it may seem like forever but the one who is meant for you will definately come your way...just don't let them do all the work.GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-28 17:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. dude you seriously are in the exact delima i am in. IT SUCKS SO BAD. All i think about is her and i wish i had made that move back then. I dont really have an answer for you, because im going thru the exact same thing. im here for you dude, im here for ya. glad to know im not alone.
2006-12-28 17:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by J_Dawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you missed your chance .now you have to wait to see if you can get a another chance . if you and her can be more than best friends.you need to find some one for you.
2006-12-28 17:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her otherwise how she will come to know about ur feeling.
2006-12-28 17:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and tell her how you feel, who knows maybe she feels the same way..good luck
2006-12-28 17:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bestfriend?? ouch that really hurts !! talk to her and say what you really feel!! she'll understand you shes still you re bestfriend....
but be ready for her answer! good luck!!
2006-12-28 17:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by siopaO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋