Okay this is the deal.. Me and my husband are going thru a divorce right now. We are going thru courts and all that stuff. He filed divorce cause I believe cause all the arrugements we had in the marriage and I believe cause he gave up to fast on us. Cause he is a mommy boy, he pick his family over me and his babygirl. So what i'm saying now is that. He has visitation But during the visits when he comes to pick up the baby. I notice he comes all with his New clothes that I buy him during our marriage like New Shirts ect. and he dress more Neat.and looks more clean. I feel he is trying to show off or trying to rub it on my face, During the divorce he left me without a car also. knowing he has 3 cars that run good. But 1 of them he gave it to me, But like i said he took it away, its a SUV, So he knows i'm without a car, So since the visit he also brings the Suv around when he picks up the baby and HIS MOM, what does this mean or what is my Ex up too, any idea's?
2006-12-28 17:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To Add. alittle more Is not that I look out for what he is wearing and so on. But He does the samething to me also on the Door when he is picking up the Baby. "YES" this is stupid of his behavier I don't talk to him either. I move on quickly when he picks up the baby, But the fact that he never dress up all neat. all suddenly he is now, espeacily the CLOTHES i gave him, is alot. Just got me wondering alittle.
2006-12-28 17:34:04 · update #1
What difference does it make what he wears or what he drives? Move forward in your life. Stay civil for the sake of the baby, but other than that you shouldn't care what he does. Obviously he is trying to upset you.
Let your attorney handle everything, if your not happy with your attorney get a new one. But just don't get caught up in his games. Take care of you and your baby.
Don't worry about how neat and clean his is. His hygeine and dress have no bearing on your divorce.
I think it's time you pick yourself up and focus on your future for you and your baby.
2006-12-28 17:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end ... the attorneys will have most of the hard earned money that you and your husband slaved so hard to make. All because you two can't act like to adults. First of all what does it matter how your ex husband dresses or what he drives? Be happy he is there picking up his daughter. It could be worst.. he could be flaunting some new young hot chick in front of you. Suck it up girl, when he comes looking so spiffy tell him so.. "my don't you look the GQ today" then drop it and get on with business. Stop numerating every little thing you don't like about him and remember.... you are the one that laid down with him, you are the one that selected him as the daddy. Time to move on girl. Act like an adult, stop taking every little little thing so personal.
2006-12-28 17:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest it can be a number of things either he is currently dating someone else so he's dressing up to impress. He should not have left you without a car doesn't he even care about his child or maybe he just doesn't want you to get around maybe he wants you to be stuck at home
2006-12-28 17:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chris0079 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, may be dirty dishonest job?
Put it this way, don't wasting your time thinking about him, he's an ex and you are present. Put your confidence back in you. Dress nice and do your hair. Make him feel that he was stupid and you are glade that you divorce with him. There some good guy that you not meet yet.
2006-12-28 17:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by raytint 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said it yourself, he's trying to rub your face in it. Obviously his mommy is in on it too. I'm sorry you're going through this, but I'm glad you're getting away from this jerk. You will be able to move on and have a happy life, but he will always be selfish and unkind, which will guarantee him an unhappy future. At least he has his mommy.
2006-12-28 17:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is trying to look good for you....Maybe he really misses you, and suddenly realizes that he made a mistake.... Mamma is there just in case you start clowning on him and also to let you know that baby will be in good hands....Let it go....He divorced you for a reason that only you know.....He misses you and you miss him!!!
2006-12-28 17:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's showing off and wants to piss you off.
Don't let him. And ask for one one of those vehicles during the divorce for you and daughter.
2006-12-28 20:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl thats just what he's doing trying to rub it in like he has a whole new life without u and the baby!
2006-12-28 17:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by emmaboo101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is your lawyer doing in the mean time? sitting on his/her hands? you need a car, you are the primary caregiver and you need to get half the matrimonial assets, child support and alimony. then you get yourself some hot clothes and find someone else. You will move on soon enough,
2006-12-28 17:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its impossible to figure him out, he is a cut and run boy, who frustrated easily, and gives up easily and who is controlled by his mom, don't worry about what he is doing or how he is dressing, doesn't mean a thing. just trying to rub your nose in it.
2006-12-29 01:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋