about older men and women?

Question

as men and women get older does their desire for sex increase / decrease or stay the same?
and does it differ between women and men?

the most details / facts = best answer and 5 stars!

damn it! this section was for men only! the womens one is coming!
damn it!

Answer 1

yeah, right, this 66 year old wrote about sex activities. but he forgot to add - a young man has sex drive like a horse stallion, he wants (and able to) to have sex all day and nigt long. older man maybe wants to have sex every day (not all day thou) but he doesn't have physical ability to do so - sexual intercourse is a tiring procedure. so maybe desire for sex is still high, but ability to perform is much lower with age

Answer 2

It does not change - if you have a healthy desire when you are young, you will have it when you are older, providing you look after yourself and make sure that the sex that you do have is good sex! I'm 62 and my wife is 56 and we have great sex about three times a week, just as we did 20 years ago, except when we are on holiday, when we have sex every day (sometimes twice a day). It's even better now though and we take our time to get the most out of it - the longer you hold off your orgasm during intercourse, the hotter it is when it comes and that applies to both of us! It's important to stay in shape if you want to keep having a satisfying sex life and we make sure that we are up to the mark by having sensible exercise, eating properly, keeping our weight down and taking a range of vitamins etc. I also take regular tribulus terrestris to maintain a naturally optimum testosterone level.So the answer is that we are still just as sexually active as we have always been and intend to remain so until we die of sexual exhaustion at age 130 plus!

Answer 3

I think that sex gets better with age. Espically if you are still with the same person. After being with someone for so long, yo both know what the other person likes and you know what pleases them. Most men reach their sexual peak around age 22 - 25! But women don't reach it untill they are almost 35! This is probably why there are so many ladies with "boy toys". I have been married for 7.5 years and my hubby and I have awsome sex and we both know what the other likes, it is like a dance that we know all the moves to! Also, when you are more relaxed with someone, it is easier to try something new.

Answer 4

I dated a pair of older adult males a minimal of 10 years older than I. some have been rather great, others have been terrible appropriate to the comparable as adult males i've got dated around my age. I don' think of the relationship's final with the aid of variation in thinking, i think of older adult males like the fact they'd nonetheless entice older women, yet older women are greater what they want with the aid of fact they'd relate greater effective. Older women who date youthful adult males, those relationships do nicely with the aid of fact women alter greater effective to distinctive circumstances. (as long as they do no longer attempt to be a "mom") purely my opinion right here, yet this develop into an extremely sturdy question. Take care.

Answer 5

Between the ages of 14 and 21 my libido was healthy. Once a day was enough for me with masturbation 1-2 times a day. 22-23 my libido was practically non-existent didn't even masturbate during this time. Maybe had sex 3 times a month or less. Now I'm 24 and I'm like a nymph! Masturbating 3-4 times a day and wanting sex all day long. If I go one day without sex I literally feel like I'm depressed!

Answer 6

I have been with my husband for 28 years he used to want sex 3 or 4 times a day.which I didn't care so much for .Now we are really on a roll if we do it once a day. Yes we are having it less but are enjoying it so much more.

Answer 7

The biggest sex organ in the body is the brain. So, no, desire for sex doesn't have to diminish with age. I don't even think it differs between men and women. My mom said she and my dad were sexual up until about a week before he died in his mid-70s. I have women friends in menopause who are as sexually active as ever with their partners. I myself am in "perimenopause," meaning I'm getting hot flashes now and then, my cycle is changing, and I'm as horny as ever.

I think it's attitude, not age.

Answer 8

i am 35 and my hubby is 44, his sexual drive increases the longer we are together, so far we have been together 4 years and he has a permanent lunp in is trousers, i am allegedly going to hit my peak at 40 so we are both going to give up work to be able to cope with it lol

Answer 9

Desire and libido are present or not present on a person to person basis. It doesn't matter if you are male or female, there are no broad sweeping generalities that can pertain to aging and sex: it depends on the person.

Answer 10

decrease for both but it varies individually
hormones change
health issues arise
medications cause problems
physical fitness declines
self esteem declines as body image is challenged by th effects o aging
I know that most would like to want sex and to perform sexually as well as during earlier years, but ...