does he say anything that everyone doesn't already know and just forget because we have the rose colored glasses on!?!
2006-12-28 16:59:27 · 10 answers · asked by what's the hoopla 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
hmm. I picked it up for pennies at a sale somewhere, read it, thought it was "eh" (happily in a 3 yr relationship, I was just reading it to read it and because I'd heard a little about it.) then I endured my BF teasing me about it (not because of the content, but because he slightly knew the male author and thought he was not exactly the authority on relationships.) so I gave it away to one of my co-workers and another girl who works there saw it and squealed "Oh my god, I LOVE that book - that book CHANGED MY LIFE!"
so that's one "get it from the library" vote from me and one "oh my god it changed my life you must read it" vote from the squealer.
I would agree with your assesment of what he says - if you're the kind of girl that knows if he doesn't call you, or texts occasionally instead of calling when he says he'll call, or makes excuses for not calling, or weeks go by where he is "too busy" to see you or call you, then it means he's just not that into you - then you don't need to get the book. If you need to be told that in flat terms and go into denial (maybe he really was busy) then you do need the book.
2006-12-28 20:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by lalabee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the library. If you can, listening to the audio cd with the authors reading it is best. It's more fun this way. To be honest, this book make me look at a couple of the guys I dated in the past, and really see that when I was feeling uncertain, I should have been listening to my gut. Since then I have been with someone who is just right for me. This book can be useful and good for some people.
2006-12-29 11:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Piaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that book just made me feel like there is no such thing as love, it seemed that if as a woman I wasnt getting EVERYTHING I wanted out of a man he wasnt into me, I began to question every relationship Ive ever had including my marriage! Its an OK read but not worth buying it, try getting it used or from the library
2006-12-28 17:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this book written by Dr. Phil. I wouldnt buy it go to the library and read tit and then if you want o buy one for yourself then do so. Heres what I do. If I hear of a book that I think I would like to read I go to the library and read it, and then if I really like it then I will order it and this way i can read it again.
2006-12-28 17:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not worth the money. All its basically saying is if he doesnt like you, its his loss. And how to tell if hes not that into you, which hello, you already know but just wont accept if you havent already. My teacher told all the girls in our class we had to get it. I checked it out in the library and wished i hadnt wasted my time.
2006-12-28 17:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by allykat87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutely worth the money -- I loved this book, and I'm pretty cheap about buying books I can borrow from the library.. anyway, this book is well worth the cover price... I still open it and read from certain passages randomly, and it still makes me laugh!!
2006-12-29 02:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by dedeshry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but I saw interviews on Oprah, and she had a full show about it.
It's just a reality check for girls, who sometimes need to realize that sometimes it's just not the right guy for you.
2006-12-28 21:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't heard anything good about it...and I work in a bookstore!
2006-12-28 17:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be for you buy it go to barnes and noble book stores read it for a few hours then see if you like it? buy it!!!
2006-12-28 17:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by davermon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah...if you want to read it, get it from the library.
2006-12-28 17:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋