Ive been kinda mad at my friend for a while now cause hes an @hole alot of the time. He can be really mean, hes racist, and doesnt like people if there mentally handicapped or because of how they look. So I just randomlly decided to tell him all his faults because he does that to everyone else. I feel kinda bad though even though I dont like him. Was I right or should I still try and be friends with him?
2006-12-28 16:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by ♫That'll be the Day♫ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why because I feel kinda bad about it. No I dont like him or anything like that.
2006-12-28 16:55:46 · update #1
tell him the things he do and still be freinds with him if you can
2006-12-28 16:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stay friends with someone you do not like? My advise would be to stay as far away from this douche-bag as possible. These types of people only bring trouble and conflict to people's lives. Steer clear and find some friends who respect you and everyone around them. This guy you speak of sounds like a real jackass, and you are better off having a healthy distrust and keeping a safe distance.
2006-12-29 00:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Carson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well .. what you did i would say is right .. after all truth hurts and if you really think hes such a Jerk so often then why would you want to be friends with him agian .. besides that after what you said and all he might decide that your not friendship worthy if you know what i mean yes you did the right thing being honest to yourself is always the best way to be
2006-12-29 00:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by jazieyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were right; do not think that what you have just done is wrong. However, about "should I still be friends with him", it is completely up to you.
Buddha teaches that in order to become happy, one should have friends who are honest, sincere, kind, smart, and hold good values and virtues. Does he?
If I were you, I would not mix up with his gang so often because you know, peer pressure is very important and it can influence you. But, if he regrets and decides to change, I would forgive him and maybe be friends with him.
It is up to you. You have to use your "most mature" thinking and logic to get this done.
Good Luck
Asker Knowmore
2006-12-29 01:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing. You can find better friends. He sounds like a real SOB, so good luck to him in finding a friend. You're better off than having him as a friend.
2006-12-29 00:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by jemulock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing and there is nothing u shud feel bad about. On the other hand u shud be proud of yourself for doing the proper thing. I would be.
2006-12-29 01:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u can create a fundamental change in his life then so be it..continue being friends with him..who knows u might be able to cure his racism.. perhaps u beacame friends for u to help him out..
2006-12-29 01:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by msweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What value does this person's friendship have to you? From your description he does not seem worth the effort.
2006-12-29 00:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ape Ape Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were right to tell him but you should still try to be his friend.Of course if he's rude to you just tell him sorry but if you cant respect me then why should i respect you.
2006-12-29 00:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why?
2006-12-29 00:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋