Whats better?

Question

My husband and I are high school sweet hearts, and we've been married for 14 years now with three kids. We are both still young, I am 32 and he is 33, but I sex life isn't that exciting. I don't know if there is something wrong with me, but I do know I love him.Whenever we are in bed he tries to rub and kiss my breast and I don't know why but I hurry and turn around and let me hit me doggy style which doesn't last long. Sometimes he tries to go down south and I start to giggle and make him come back up so I can jump on and ride him, after I *** he then tells me to let him hit it doggy style so he can ***. I know that this is boring and I want to try something new, and keep him satisfied. Is this normal for me to feel and act this way, any suggestions?

Answer 1

well why don't you let him go south...that would be new and exciting, believe me...lol
have you ever gave him a B/J?
u could go online to sites where you can find ways to spice up your sex life
Good Luck

Answer 2

Marital sex can be routine at times. Try reading books like "The Joy of Sex" and the Kama Sutra and experiment some. Men are visual. . . try new underwear, new lingerie, etc. Send the kids to a babysitter and have an intimate date night with a special candlelight dinner, and go from there. You might also want to investigate material available from the Better Sex Institute (the Sinclair Institute). They have massage oils, sex education videos for the bored couple, etc. Don't give up on your sex life. It can get better.

Answer 3

yeah iwould say it is normal .. considering that it is about the same way for my husband and I we been married 12 almost 13 years with 2 kids .. and at times it just seems like what sex ?? its almost like it never happens and it is hard to figgure out what to do to make things more exciting for you and for him .. best thing you can do is keep it open and honest and mabey between you and him you can both come up with new ideas mabey look at karma sutra books in a book store they can give you some ideas too

Answer 4

I know exactly what you mean.
What my husband and I tried was renting porn, buying sexy outfits and playing roles. It helped alot.
Make a date night at least once a month and choose a room that you don't normally have sex in and role play there.
There are board games for couples to look into.
Meet at a hotel once in awhile, separately. First one there sets up the scene.
Millions of couples are going through the same thing.

Answer 5

God bless you for rolling over and taking it doggy. Your husband is a lucky man. If your wanting some variety, just take charge, i am sure he will be ok with it.

Answer 6

Sounds like the intimacy is fading....are you just going through the motions?
Work on that. Remember it works when a man is made to feel like a man by the woman (use ur imagination). And woman made to feel like a woman.....God made it that way.

And experiment with him......fresh ideas can bring you places you never been.

Answer 7

I think the guys like a bit more variety than Doggy all the time.....I like doggy too but get on top now and then............

Answer 8

i think you shall late hem go south and see how exciting you sex life will be and if it doesn't work you shall read some book like "The joy of sex".

Answer 9

could it just be that your not that self confident? Or him? Either way something is happening and you both need to sit down and pinpoint exatcly what it is..

Answer 10

no, it's not, I'm 37 and i want my hubby to go on forever