and i am sure he likes and love me so much,until i discover that someone sending him and offline message saying "i like you and i love you" i was just hurt cause i love him, should i trust him or dump him?
2006-12-28 16:46:37 · 17 answers · asked by shy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just honestly talk to him. You don't quite know what it is that you saw right? Besides, you had sex right? Sex shows that you have enough trust in a person that you want to be a part of them. If you have every reason to trust him up till this point then you need to talk to him now. You can also try and see if your friends would like to investigate that message further. But basically it sounds like there is someone else who loves him. It may be a family member, it may be a stalker, it may just be his best girl friend finally opening up. Whatever it is talk to him. If you really don't trust him right now though, watch for other signs that he may not be playing a fair game.
Best of luck!
2006-12-28 17:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tweety bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making a Big Mistake. Sex should be for marriage!
To guys .........sex doesn't equal true love in many cases.
The Bible says it is Fornication and is wrong. Do you want a disease or an unplanned for baby?
Watch Maury and see what happens on the couples that had sex before marriage.
2006-12-28 16:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been thru this alot. ask him straight up about the msgs. if he gets worked up , dump him right away. it's obvious that he was mad that you know about it and he may just have to lose u. guys' ego. and a guy should not be reacting that way if this was a misunderstanding or the msgs are just some girl's confession. he should be clearing it up with u, with a proper calm manner. if he shows sincerity that nothing's going on, test him en u decide for a dump or not.
2006-12-28 20:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by b.z. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl first of all let me tell you that once a dog always a dog and no ***** is bouta be telling yo man that they like or love him if he ain't leading them on or giving them a reason to think so. You feelin me ma? Don't break up with him just yet. Be all up in his ****. Snoop if you must and when yall together don't be giving him privacy to even take a ****. Your time is valuable so use every time he's out of the room and his info is in wisely. Get em girl. Check his **** and if you happen to come across any hoes numbers you know what to do!!!
2006-12-28 17:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have wait just a little longer next time try to get to know the person a little better before you make that type of move talk to him about the message try to find out whats going on love is a strong word
2006-12-28 17:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by buffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So online message him back and say......
'I like you and I love you TOO. For 5 years !' - First come First serve!
Arrawize, just bussa cap or 2.
2006-12-28 17:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by U2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun...you need to dump him...if theres other ppl who love him (make sure its not family b4 u break-up wit him tho...lol! that would be bad!)
and also some more advice...next time your wit some1 wait about a year b4 sex...then you know you trust the other person and it will hurt less...
2006-12-28 16:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him. Being too fast on the trigger doesnt help and ends alot of great relationships. Just go with it a little while. But if your gut tells you to leave, dont ignore it.
2006-12-28 16:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by dark_angel_360 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All I know is that you are too young to be having sex! Your writing tells me that you have many years of school left to attend.
2006-12-28 16:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound kinda young.....I'd say both of you will be making some mistakes in the future, so don't sweat this one too much.
2006-12-28 16:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋