Or should she just accept I love her and that is enough.
2006-12-28 16:46:31 · 23 answers · asked by stocksrcoolin2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love and marriage is sustained with maintenance. Meaning, YES, send her those flowers or cards or whatever it is that lets her know that she is still special and meaningful to you and is worth and worthy of such acknowledgements.
2006-12-28 16:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Fur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely send the flowers. I have been married for over 50 years and I still send my wife flowers any chance I get.
2006-12-29 00:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers just because are always nice. We like to get them on special occasions, but when we get them just because we are being thought of, it is even better and they mean more to us. At least to me. It doesn't hurt to send her flowers every once in a while, or bring her a rose when you come home from work. It doesn't have to be extravagant, just something to let her know how special she is to you, and that you are thinking about her.
2006-12-29 01:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by S Denise J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a woman needs some reassurance. If a few flowers will do that then do it. It doestn have to be a weekly thing, just once in a blue moon to cheer her up. I dont know if money is the issue, but maybe you could by some from a discount store and then fix them up in a simple vase, they dont have to be high dollar long stem roses to say I love you, just do what you can afford.
Its doing nothing that is more costly. Good luck.
2006-12-29 00:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could it possibly hurt to send her flowers? I'm sure she's not holding her feelings for you ransom until you send flowers to prove your love. What's the absolute worst case scenario here? She ends up feeling appreciated and thought about by the love of her life and you probably get a special treat at the end of the day too. Sounds like a win-win situation to me.
2006-12-29 00:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers, moron. Part of loving someone is doing all of the little things that make them happy. Sending flowers is one of the easiest things you could do to make her happy. As a matter of fact, don't send her flowers. Go pick some yourself, make a card to go with them out of construction paper and a little imagination, and deliver them in person.
2006-12-29 00:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers! TELL HER YOU LOVE HER ! Hug and kiss her when you get home,. the more that you do to show and tell her that YOU CARE ABOUT HER AND VALUE HER THE MORE SHE WILL VALUE YOU ! This is a no- brain er . Those thought full little things that make her feel special pay off big time.You thinking about ways to keep her happy will result in her thinking of ways to keep you happy, you do want to be happy don't you?????
2006-12-29 00:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by blondecarpenter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
Send her flowers, at work if possible. You'll score lots of points. She'll be happier and so will you. The best time to send flowers is for no reason whatsoever: not her birthday or Valentine's day or your anniversary, just because you love her.
2006-12-29 00:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by tfedge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers, nice notes, jewelery. (doesn't have to be expensive)
Dinner out, take care of the kids and let her have a 'me only' day (by herself or with friends.) Loving someone is great, but just loving them and not showing it, (no matter how small or large the gift, time or something she will treasure) is a bit empty.
The words, I love you are fine....but if you say I love you and theres nothing behind the words...what do you have ???
(presents don't have to have money behind them...just a kind, caring, loving gesture...)
2006-12-29 00:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to let her know that she is special to you by sending flowers ---but you should show it daily!!! She also needs to show you that she cares and that you are special to her by doing something or giving you something that you like.
2006-12-29 00:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋