what can i do if i miss somebody that died?

Question

it was my grandfather.

Answer 1

Talk to them. There is much debate over what happens once someone dies. I guess it depends on what you believe...

Answer 2

I Still Miss People I Love Who Died. The Pain Is Always There But It Will Not Hurt As Bad As Time Passes! You'll Be Okay Just Remember The Good Times You Had With Your Grandfather.

Answer 3

There are many things you can do. One thing I did when I lost a loved one was made a memory book of some sort. I put pictures, stories, things that reminded me of that person and every time I would start to miss them I would take the book out and feel a little closer to that person. Another thing you could do is just talk to him when you are feeling down or just for any reason at all. I know from personal experience take it one day at a time it will get better maybe not easier but the pain will get a little easier to deal with as the days go by. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

I lost a grandfather too last year and had to get over it. So What I did was write a story about him and all the times we spent together and then just read it over and over again. After
you do that you should try to be thankful that he was even in your life and he is in a better place now and not in pain. sorry about your grandpa!!

Answer 5

I am very sorry for your lose. Keep remembering all of the good times that the two of you had. It is very hard when you lose some one that you love.Especially if it was close to the holidays. Pray and ask God for comfort.As time moves on it does get a little easier. But you'll always miss them. You'll do just fine it takes some time, but you will get thru this. I hope this will help you to feel a little better. Take care and god bless.

Answer 6

You are always going to miss your grandfather. I know what you are going through my sister was murdered about 2 years ago and I miss her everyday. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of her. But you have to remember all the good times that you shared with that loved one, and remember that if you keep them in your heart then they are never really gone. I keep pushing on through this thing we call life just because i know that one day I will see my beloved sister again. I had a beautiful baby girl in April and I named her after my sister. So I will always love my sister. Even though I can't see her or talk to her or hug her. I know that she knows that I love her and miss her dearly. I hope that I helped you. Just hang in there.

I don't know who these people are that say the pain will go away. It will never go away. It doesn't ease not if you actually have a heart and cared for the person. Here is a little history about me and my pain in 91 one of my uncle's was murdered. That pain is still with me just as strong as ever. In 02 my other uncle was murdered. I still live with that pain and again it is still as strong as ever. Then just recently My ONLY sister was murdered. I STILL FEEL THE PAIN. IT DOESN'T GO AWAY. IT DOESN'T EASE. You just have to keep them in your heart and in your thoughts.

Answer 7

Do your best to keep the memories of your grandfather alive. If there were things you did together,try keeping these things in your life. As long as you can share these memories ,your grandfather will never be gone from you.

Answer 8

A question close to my heart. Here is what I did when my Grandad passed away. Every year on the date of his death, b/c I lived so far from the cemetery, I would buy one red rose (red,which means love), and set the red rose in a vase where I could see it; every day, for a long time, I would look at the heaven's where I know my Grandad is, and send a kiss; I made a scrap book and put pix and memento's in it of my Grandad and myself. Knowing my Grandad was in heaven and had become an angel, I would pray for him, the Bible speaks of praying for the saints; if I were afraid I would think of my Grandad and talk to him, asking him to protect me. As we all know, time heals the pain, but the memories are there for you to cherish for a life time.

Answer 9

My grandfather was killed in a car accident, that his wife, my younger sibling and I were also in. Write him a letter, or go visit his grave tell him what he means to you. Keep the letter, put it away and when you are missing him, take the letter out and read it.

Answer 10

Time heals to a certain extent, but it doesnt take away the fact that you miss a loved one that has passed on. The only hope that we have is someday we may see that person again someday in another place another time.

Answer 11

I too have lost loved ones...way too many of them. Like the old Frank Sinatra song goes "Thanks for the memories" Remember them. Respect them. Honor them. Grieving will decrease over time. You may hurt less, but you'll never forget. The thing that helps me the most is knowing that it isn't over. I WILL see them again. When I do see them everything will be good. No one will have pain, no sickness, no war, no violence and it will last forever. All this is done by Christ. Hope this helps.