2006-12-28 16:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Jody B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
at first it was every day sometimes twice a day but after 2 years and everyday stress of co-habitating,work,bills,children,ect now we are at 3-5 times a week but it seems to be an right befour we pass out for the night thing and always in the bed -damn I miss doing it anytime-anyplace! my advice to you is cumnicate with your s.o. so its not a chore tell him what you need it might be awkard at first but I promise it will change everything then you will be the one always wanting some
2006-12-28 16:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right or wrong answer. each person is different. However, in a healthy relationship, it is each persons responsibility to take care of the needs of the other person. But, there are times when a persons needs are causing a problem for the other person, or the other person just cant fulfill those needs. then there must be a strategy that will create a compromise where both people are satisfied. A good counselor or a support group will be able to give you some ideas on how to fix this situation. there could be other issues working here also. your husband may have some issues that are unresolved and he is solving them,(getting relief from them), thru sex. A counselor can help him with that and find other ways of releasing the stress besides sex. Or, maybe you could have some issues that are preventing you from wanting sex as much as you might otherwise enjoy. Get some advise from those in the know before this problem balloons into something too big to handle and affects your relationship in a negative way. the problem wont go away on its own. Get some help attack the problem as "a couple" and don't let the problem brings division..
2006-12-28 16:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no numbers some say 2 or 3 times a week. If you are not up for it then don't. It's all about you too.
2006-12-28 16:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex for ladies human beings is under no circumstances sufficient. we are restricted with the help of adult males. beforehand I had somewhat one we had it on widely used 10 to fourteen circumstances a week. After the toddler we've it possibly 8 to twelve circumstances a week. we've had Sunday as a selected kin day considering beforehand toddler and then we did not upward push up beforehand noon.
2016-12-01 07:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different I like it at least 4 or 5 times a week
2006-12-28 16:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Meagan T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no typical number of times. It's about the happy-as-possible-medium between what the two of you want/need.
2006-12-28 16:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Steve H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5-7 times a week (give or take) seems to work for me and my man
2006-12-28 16:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by earthgirl766 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
about 3 times a week if your living together...any more than that becomes a chore...dont do it if you dont want to just for the sake of your partners oversex drive...tell him to have a 5 knucle shuffle or something
2006-12-28 16:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say at least 3 times a week........probably more.....for me and my boyfriend 3-5 days out of the week....
2006-12-28 16:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Amy N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL Girl you have no idea how lucky you are. My husband is serving overseas. I wish he were here to love me "all the time" as you say.
2006-12-28 16:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by USA Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋