Well I dont know what to do?
I just started my school holidays and my aunty came over im in yr 11 and i talked to her and always laughed etc. and now she has left and i cant stop feeling lonely my parent are here and all but its just wierd I had more fun when she was here and now i keep thingin about things like the HCS and i just keep worrying i got a Nintendo Wii for Xmas but i cant enjoy playing it because i just keep thinkgin about my exams and just feel wierd like when you are nervous and i have gottend a mad Xmas gift but no use the only subject i worried about is maths because ive failed it alot of times and now im gonna thinkg about this until i get my results at the end of next year my Aunt lives 1000km away in melbourne any advice what i can do to stop thinking about the exams??
2006-12-28 16:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Dazzi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes you just have to have someone other than your parents to spend time with. Do you have any friends or acquaintances to keep you occupied? If not just concentrate on your studies ,bring up those math scores,and maybe your anxiety will fade in time.
2006-12-28 16:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well now is the perfect time to crack open that math book and start studying. You have tons of spare time on holidays, so study a bit each day. Then reward yourself by playing your Wii. You will feel much better about yourself, and your time will be well spent with a good balance of work and play. I also suggest that you ask if your parents if a trip to go visit your aunt could be arranged this summer ( after you get those good grades of course) as a special treat. Also what if you called her for a bit, maybe she could give you some encouragement that you need to help you through. Good luck!!
2006-12-29 00:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Maurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could try calling your aunt on a daily or weekly basis whenever you feel lonely just to here her voice etc.
or make a few friends and hjave them come over and play on the games console with you.
maybe go to town and see if you can pick up a girlfriend (or one from your school) or boyfriend i'm not here to judge (your life live it your way).
Just try to do things to take your mind off the exams as worrying never solves anything.
study hard though and with luck you will sail through your exams.
I never studdied and now at age 33 i wish i had. (i'm not going in to details of my life here, suffice to say i made a lot of mistakes when i was your age the least of which was not studying and the worst mistake i made was letting the girl i loved and to this day still think about get away ( i lost her contact details as i foolisly left an address book in my locker at end of term).
So concentrate on your exams, and if you don't already have one get a partner/ girlfriend, schedule your time when not at school to maximise your social and accademic life.
say after school set a short time for a snack break followed by a couple of hours of study, then maybe relaxation (tv, music, game, friends etc.) it's your life make it how you want it. live it your way.
listen to your parents they normally know what is best for you they are only attempting to steer you past mistakes they may have made at your age.
2006-12-29 00:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to feel lonely, completely alone..
But you know, it is just normal, you missed someone because you feel a very strong bond with that person. It is completely okay.
To forget about the exams, what you can do is to hang out with your fellow friends, watch DVDs and movies, join smart camps which will allow you to mix up with various people, or even enroll in some courses which does not involve academic, such as sports training, personality development courses, acting class, et cetera.
Whatever your decision is, I wish you Good Luck.
Asker Knowmore
2006-12-29 00:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...just relax...dont let this haunt you...the exams are going to happen but what you need is PMA positive mental attitude, instead of dwelling on it, think..ok, this is what i have to do and i will do my best, worrying is not going to help, it will make you worse...so put the exams aside for now and think of the fun you had with your aunt, your too young to be worrying....relax
2006-12-29 00:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had felt that feeling lots of times. i am sacred for the exams too--i don't want to fail..i haven't failed before
2006-12-29 00:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Carmen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋