I lost my virginity a week ago and It was really different then I expected. It hurt sooo much and then after i looked down and realized there was blood all over the sheets..I was so embaressed. I dont use tampons (pads) and ive never masturbated so it was really intact, Is this normal?
2006-12-28 16:05:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
sorry about your loss...
yes, bleeding is normal because the hymen (the covering to the vagina) was still mostly intact because of your lack of manipulation (tampons or objects), so when your partner inserted his penis, it broke the hymen and you had pain and bleeding...
don't worry, it will heal over the next week or so
i was surprised that when you told him that it hurt a lot, that he didn't stop thrusting to respect your feelings and to make sure that you were ok...
in olden times when men paid dowries for their daughters, the men buying the dowery would watch the first intercouse (with his son) to make sure they saw blood to be sure that they truly did buy a virgin (cause only virgins would bleed)
2006-12-28 16:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
this could be a comfortable project for me. I by no skill even had an threat to lose it till i grow to be 21, and ultimately did at 22. It wasn't lots that i wanted to, yet I resent that I by no skill had a decision approximately it. particularly provided that human beings in my age group (those that grew up interior the '80s) supposedly grew up in a decadent era.
2016-10-28 14:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by gripp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. My first time felt like I was sitting on top of a hot stove...aka ouch. It gets better with time and masturbating helps stretch things a little but you can stop when it gets painful. Hope this helps and remember to use protection!
2006-12-28 20:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal.
2006-12-28 16:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by FX_Make-upArtist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't worry, you're SUPPOSED to bleed! Your man's penis broke your hymen. Your hymen is a 'barrier' in your vagina that keeps things from coming in. Naturally, during your first time having sex, the man's penis will break it, and it bleeds.
It's nothing to worry about--that just mean you're no longer a virgin!
2006-12-28 18:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Midori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal, the first time it's painful and bloody, but it is completely normal, don't worry hon!
2006-12-28 16:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by i_amrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal. i used tampons before i lost my virginity and i tore and bled and was in pain for a week and it took four times before it was even comfortable.
2006-12-28 18:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should ask your parents about that one. People have different opinions about that subject. I would wait and see , I lost mine at 14 and i regret it. I wanted to wait 4 marriage but stupid ol me never. Please ask your mother or health apartment 4 a pamphlet.
2006-12-28 16:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal. It means that your hymen torn during sex. You might be a little sore and some itching until it heals.
2006-12-28 16:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by chelle8079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, and dont be ashamed, that is natural, some girls bleed and some dont just like the amount of pain could differ from one girl to the next.
2006-12-28 16:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by cubanitoloko23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋