I was reallllly close to a group of friends during the summer..and since school started ALOT of stuff happened, and we started splitting apart. And now we all still talk but we barely hang out and talk anymore. Then some started talking again..and now they are close..but im still left out. I feel horrible now. What can i do? Do i need other people to count on?
2006-12-28 15:49:30 · 14 answers · asked by HiLovely 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Groups waver in and out. They don't always stick as closely as they initially are. If you all (y'all) are splitting apart, start organizing some get togethers and have some fun!
Good luck!
2006-12-28 16:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them over, hang out as a group so you can all be part of the friendship again. If they still push you away, then talk to them about it. It might just not work out, and if it doesn't then you're just going to have to move on.
I'm going through some of the same things. It's really hard but it's something i can learn from and grow from. I wish you the best!
2006-12-29 00:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by samantha e6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just rely on 1 specific group of friends. if they r ignoring u than just leave em alone and make new 1. I'm not saying shut them out, so keep ur self open 4 when they wanna chat with u
2006-12-29 00:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by irokusuk123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that thing happen to me too i just pass by them with a new group of Friends and we become friends again but the friends you used when your not close with your previous friends you need to still be friends with them
2006-12-29 00:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by reizalyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is strange, Friends come and go just like that.
Its not you, people just change and things start happening differently.
Just hang in there and roll with the Flo...trust me its not you at all.
2006-12-28 23:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bridget 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same has happened to me, and just try and talk to them more. my friend has just refused to talk to me now and i just learned to accept it. i found better friends. just try and find other people you have a lot in common with, and that you feel you can count on.
2006-12-28 23:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kacey♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first if they don't talked to the much many times then don't talk 2 them unless the are going 2 talk 2 u so i say just hget other friends to count best way
2006-12-28 23:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl i'm goin' through the same thing I just moved to a differnt school this year and I try and keep in touch but its hard.Find new friends and hang with them but still keep in touch with them or try.Hope this helps.
2006-12-29 00:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to try calling everyday because you guys done see each other and if it doesn't work than find other friends.
2006-12-29 00:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by prue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow i reakon, but dont make them your number one priority. You will eventually meet new friends, one's that are truly your friends, which you deserve....Good luck hope this helped
2006-12-29 00:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋