Can a married man go 8 months without sex??

Question

My husband and I have not been intimate in 8 months do you think he is cheating on me. His hours are odd works day and night says he is not cheating on me what do you think

Answer 1

It could be stress related. Overwork and worrying about the bills can leave a man no time fro intimacy. I know in my own marriage there were long periods of time where sex just was out of the question. My body just couldn't perform at the end of the day.
What you can do is to reassure him that you still want and need his attention.and do what you can to bring him back slowly. It won't happen overnight,but with time you can be normal again. Good Luck!

Answer 2

My husband is going on 5 months with nothin' right now:) Then again mine has been in the doghouse for 5 months and won't get any until he shapes up:) But I know he isn't cheating on me. He have weird hours too and would never have the chance to cheat. Try just giving a little more attention and see what happens:)

Answer 3

If u are married to him then he wont be kicked out of Oz unless u dump him - he can still apply to stay. If u give him a baby that does change but at 45 do u want to go back to it all again. I get the sense that u dont really want a new baby so why bring a child into the relationship if it is only to keep a man that u dont even seem to talk about in a loving way. It sounds like u are safe bet for him (his exs wore mini skirts etc) and that u are past all that stuff. Can u afford IVF to get pregnant again? U seem to have a lot of things to think about. GO with your heart but be reasonable about what u want and what any future children might want! Good luck.

Answer 4

I can't go 8 days without either doing something about it, or having some. Are you available, and is he maybe experiencing erectile dysfunction?

You need to communicate with him. Always try to come from contribution. Remind him how wonderful lovemaking was when you first met, and ask him if there's some way you can work together to even have half of that pleasure together again.

I will pray for you both. God knows what you need- just ASK!

Answer 5

I think it is possible that he can go that long without. My husband and I work completely opposite schedules, so it's hard for us to find time to be intimate. Do you have any other reason to think he's cheating?

Answer 6

Do you think he is a cheating man? Or is his job working him so much that he is too tired for sex. You can assume but you need to check in on him. make an unscheduled visit at different times. check up with the hours and see if they match up with his check if possible. Always talk slip up can come out. How long can you go with it. investigate

Answer 7

Hmm, Sounds a bit sketchy, but you can never be too sure. It all depends, when you try to be intimate does he get all nervous and short? Or is he just , "
really tired", I would try not to be too paranoid about it- and not to be a psycho but maybe check his cell phone bill? It just sounds odd that a man doesnt want to be intimate for 8 months..Good luck!

Answer 8

I can't say for sure because I'm on the outside but most guys can't. A good way to tell is to try to be really sensual with him and see what he does. If he turns you down, chances are he is- or he may be tired. Also depends if he is a sexual person normally. I hate to say it but cheating is really easy for guys so you better have a talk or two with him if you really want to know what's in his head.

Answer 9

no man can go 6 months without sex so he has to be cheating on you for sure

Answer 10

no man can go without sex for 8 months, married or single