what should i think? She locks her self in her romm for hours and leaves me out.
2006-12-28 15:46:48 · 18 answers · asked by mattblatt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i can not check her my space is set to private
2006-12-28 16:22:44 · update #1
Dont ignore those signs. I did and I regret it. I found out my girl friend of six years cheated on me with a co worker. I found out by looking at her Myspace inbox and finding sexual emails. She later admitted that it all started with Myspace. its bad man. Some people really fall for the fantacies that sites like Myspace can create and loose touch of whats important. she is probably cheating on you. Make sure you don't pressure her or confront her to much. she will be able to hide it. Try to find a way to get her password to myspace so that you can look at her messages. the way I did it was by trying to log on as her using her email address wich I already new the password to and clicking the option to send the password to her email. Then all I had to do was go to her email and get the password. You might not be able to do that so you have to buy a system that lets you track what goes on in your computor. YOu want to be carefull that she does not find out. it might be that she is not doing anything but you don't want to risk it. You deserve to know the truch and you have reasons to suspect that she is cheating. It is better to find out now than later. good luck. remember that their are honest, beautfull, smart woman out theire that dont chat. good luck again.
HOW TO TELL IF SHE IS CHEATING!
Look for discrepancies between speech and facial or body movements.
A liar's pupils may dilate.
A change in voice level and pitch are possible signs of a lie.
More shrugs of the shoulders? That's a possible sign.
Too little eye contact — and too much contact — are both fishy.
Other Signs Of A Cheater:
Your spouse spends an excessive amount of time in the on-line chat rooms.
Your spouse pays less attention to you.
Your spouse is preoccupied with on-line chatting, more distant emotionally.
Your spouse is insisting on chatting alone.
Your spouse has unaccounted time away from home.
Your spouse has a decreased interest in sex.
Your spouse becomes defensive during normal conversations.
2006-12-28 15:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love her what so ever. Its just plain jealousy. Think back when you marred her did you marry because you loved her or you loved the way she reacts to thing and what she has become. You do have a serious problem. What you should do is tell her what is going on only because she made something of her self doesn't mean you cant. Also no don't think your gay only because you like to put on her perfume its that you are desperate to be better than her
2016-03-28 23:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think she was up to something. I would definately try what other's have spoken about on here. I would definately go with creating a fake account and if you know what she is talking under or what name she has on myspace i would use that fake account and catch her at her own game, make sure you save screen captures of what you have seen under your false account. Or if she uses yahoo messenger to use the webcam with, when she is not at home log onto the messenger go into preferences or options and find where it says save conversations. Comes in handy when you suspect your other half of doing the wrong sort of things online.
2006-12-28 16:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you already know the answer, otherwise you wouldn't be asking on this forum. If you are married, and it's your house as well, then demand to know what she's doing. Otherwise, cut her internet connection. Sounds as if she's up to no good.
What's her myspace profile name? you can join under a false name and do a search for her profile - unless she has it marked private. In which case nobody can see it unless she's on their "friends" list.
BUT, it sounds a bit fishy to me.
2006-12-28 15:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by CricketB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be very upset if I found out my husband bought a web cam without me knowing it. I would wonder what is up her sleave. Why is she being so secretive. If she is locking herself in her room she could be fullfilling some fantasy in other ways. Sounds odd if you ask me.
2006-12-28 16:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably has taken the saddle out of the barn and is looking for other horses.
2006-12-28 15:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell nah she is cheating on u with a ''friend'' since ofcourse myspace is a place for friends, well if i were u i will do something bout that pronto or just get one for urself...**** thanx through myspace thats how i found out my bf was cheating on me
2006-12-28 15:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's up to no good. Ask her and if she denies anything, give her an ultimatum: U or the Computer.
2006-12-28 15:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by chokolaite_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create a myspace profile yourself...(dont have it obviously be you-pretend to be someone else)...contact her...see how she responds...go from there.
2006-12-28 15:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is doing stuff that she does not want you to see...get one of your friends to try and chat with her and see what happens_
2006-12-28 15:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋