I met a wonderful man who seemed very interested in me at first. He sent me letters and we shared our hobies had sex about 6 times per day. Now we don't do anything, he's not interested in my hobbies or taking me to his hobbies and we only sleep with each other about once every 3 weeks. If I approach him at night he says he is tired. I'm sick of "making myself available" when he won't do the same for me. I'm very attractive and I dont' understand what's going on. I checked his internet and I want to ask: Is it gay for a guy to look at girls having anal sex and going down on a huge d**c? What about 2 watching two guys on one girl?
2006-12-28 15:38:59 · 27 answers · asked by wladnagirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe all the porn is making him not want to have sex with you. I'd confront him about it. And then, if he did anything other than apoligize and beg your forgiveness, I'd leave. I'm sure you're beautiful...and I'm sure you could do better. It doesn't matter if he's gay or not...it matters that he's not making you happy.
2006-12-28 15:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We always pretend to be interested and sincere. I mean, do u know how hard that is to fake? Six times a day is the joy of new p#ssy. A few times a week is closer to normal. Once every three week means he has other women. I'm married now and out of the game so I'll share one small piece of information-- Don't be to quick to jump in the sack. The best players are the ones that listen, pretend to be interested in your hobbies maybe go through a book at Barnes & Nobles about your hobby while hitting on another babe. Make the guy wait it out. Nothing like time to sort the players from the interested. A player will move on to greener pastures very quickly. Remember try not to kiss to many frog before one turns into a prince. Just hang in there your prince will come.
2006-12-28 23:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by RUDOLPH M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is watching guys with gals in any activity or combo it may well be because the thrill of the threesomes or various forms of sex ual activity turn him on. What you may not yet realize is that many guys will actually have both anal and vaginal sex with their gals and both often enjoy it immensely. So just because anal sex may not be your thing it doesn't mean a guy who wants it with his gal is gay; far from it. Same when a guy wants a threesome; whether 2m1f or 2f1m it is still heterosexual sexual activity at the heart of it and all that is happening is there are some extrta parts flying around to enjoy.
So, rather than beatign yrouself up over all this, forget whether or not he might be gay. That is the least of yoru troubles. From what little you said and from where I sit, I;d day this guy is just not interested in you any longer and it is time for you to move on with yrou life and find friends and a new bf. Get out there to mix, mingle and socialize and leave him in your dust.
2007-01-01 18:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not want to have sex with you because it sounds like hes been on the Internet masturbating. If hes looking at girls having anal sex and sucking on big ones, hes probably bisexual. I happen to be bisexual and that's why i know what hes doing. You have a couple of choices.
1. Talk to him about what you found on his PC and if nothing changes in your relationship then break up with him if your not happy.
2. If your in love with him, then you have to get into what he likes.
And that means giving him a piece of a**. Also, getting a big dildo or strap on and doing him once in a while might spice up your relationship. I have anal sex with my wife and she really cums hard when i take her from the back and play with the front.
Also she dons a strap on and she enjoys doing me good. We kiss and hug and have a great relationship. Trust is a very strong feeling in a relationship, and so is sex. So, I guess you'll have to see if you really want to continue with this gentleman or move on. Its up to you. By the way, if you do anal, go slow the first time and use allot of lube. This way you wont hurt your anus and it would be better if you rode him. Its more comfortable that way for you. Good luck.
2006-12-29 03:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not giving you what you want, why care about his sexuality at all?
But to satisfy your curiosity, as a gay man myself, I think he's certainly straight.
It happens to be very straight to look at girls having anal sex and swallowing the inimaginable.
The two guys and the girl is also stereotypical straight porn although many gay men like to watch that too.
Maybe what he really wants is one or more women to do what he watches in porn videos but either you are willing or not to do such things my final advice is to move on and find someone new.
2006-12-28 23:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sebastian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds about right to me.
Men are more visual. We get a lot of stimulation from watching things go on.
I'm curious to know if you've asked him about it? The best place to look for answers is the place where the problems are - Talk to him. If he doesn't open up immediately, give him some time. You'll know when you'e had enough and then you can walk away with a clean conscience.
2006-12-28 23:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make him gay, my ex was far from homosexual and he was interested in anal.
He seems to be into the whole dominance over women thing. Maybe you're making yourself too available when he wants to have his way with you on his terms...or maybe he wants to try those kinds of things with you.
2006-12-28 23:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have this kind of quick-time buddy we just met and everytime i say something about sex (well straight sex even though i'm gay i act as if i'm not still hiding!) he always asks about was it anal? It's always anal, anal, anal and i suspect that he's also gay! why don't you get a porno magazine for GIRLS and get himself naked and one by one show those pics ACCIDENTALLY and just tell him it's yours and see if his penis rises! or if he gets horny and aroused....
Why don't i try that on my friend!
2006-12-29 01:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by CaNdY-PoPpeR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of that is gay - you need to move on he is not that into you.
Get the book - He's just not that into you. You're wake up call. By Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo
2006-12-28 23:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by homerdacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think he's bored. He probably just wants more some excitment in the relationship in and out of bed. Sometimes keeping the same routine is overrated.
2006-12-29 00:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by W.E.S. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋