I am really having alot of trouble getting over my X husband. We where married for a year and then got divorced and remained the best of friends. Then i recieved a phone call a month after i last seen him telling me that he had commited suacide. I feel like i see him everywhere.
I just got married a few months ago and now my sister is dating a man who is a twin of him. What should i do? I have even went to a psychic to see if this is his way of communication with me!
HELP PLEASE!!!!!!! I miss him soooo much and my current husband is trying to do everything he can to help me!!!
2006-12-28 15:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by nickole30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to let him go. I was divorced in 2003 after only 2 years of marriage b/c me and my ex just fell out of love. We got married too young I think. Even though we divorced we still remained close friends and genuinely loved each other just not like husband and wife. I could tell him anything and vice versa. In 2004 I was two months away from having my 1st daughter and received the terrible phone call from my ex's parents saying he had died. He died all alone in his apartment from a blood clot that ultimately stopped his heart. His job reported him missing b/c he never showed up for work and the police finally went out and found him in his apaertment. He had been dead for days. That still haunts me to this day that he was alone and how scared he must have been when it happened. I cried and cried and cried but what I ultimately had to do was to accept God's plan and let him go. I have moved on with my life but I will never forget him. Whenever I hear his favorite song on the radio I think about him and smile.
You have to move on as well. It takes time but you have a new life and a new husband that deserves your love and attention. We can't change the past. We can only just enjoy the memories we had with our ex's. I know my ex would want me to be happy and I'm sure yours would as well.
Email me at azenon@yahoo.com if you need to talk.
2006-12-28 15:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky your husband is being so understanding. You need closure. You need to let him go and say goodbye. You'll always remember him, but move on. You have a new husband that obviously loves you. Appreciate him. Not every man would be so understanding.
2006-12-28 23:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who kills him self was being a little bit selfish.He did it and it hurt u . Dont let him in ur thoughts or dreams tell him you dont want him anymore. u r married and have a perfect husband forget about him. but also pray for him and his peace one last time .be around your husband and hold his hands and go to church dont see a phycic, or ask for other hepl just move on..
2006-12-28 23:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault that he committed suicide! You could not change his mind even if you had the chance! You need to give yourself time to grieve...he would not want you to do this to yourself! You may also want to seek counciling for this too...it helps! Good luck sweetie!!!
2006-12-28 23:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will take time!!!!!!!! Pray to God to help you forget him!
Don't go trying to relive memories, you need to be working o your future memories with the man you do have!
2006-12-28 23:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father I lift up Sweetie, and I ask that you would comfort her and hold her in the palm of your mighty hand.....God is love....He sent Jesus to die for our sins and to give us life, and life more abundently.....he wants to help u, all you have to do is invite him to come into your heart.....so that he can heal u, and lead your life....God bless ya
2006-12-28 23:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sure you miss him or maybe you feel guilty about something that happened. Maybe you just want some closure....think its time to move on_
2006-12-28 23:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋