Of course I mean, if the child wasn't yours, biologically.
My cousin did it and I think its so sweet, but I don't think I'm ready to go into the dating world for years.
2006-12-28 15:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by ~∂Їβ~ 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
My best friend started dating he rnow boyfriend while she was pregnant. They now live together, and he takes care of her son like his own. He has 3 children from a previous marriage also.
I think it can work out, but there aren't that many good men willing to hang in there. So I definitely applaud men who are able to look past things like that. The only problem I see at all, is in my best friends case, she has gotten somewhat lazy since she had her son, and REALLY pushes alot of the work of taking care of the baby on to her boyfriend. He also works full-time, and she stays home. I just think that if you do find a good man willing to raise your child like his own, it's nice not to force ALL of the hard work on him. It's pretty generous of him anyways.
You should get back into the dating world whenever it's the right time for you. Good luck!
2006-12-28 15:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a one night stand and got pregnant a week before me and my boyfriend started dating. I knew he truly loved me when he said that he wanted to be the father of my baby after we were together for only a month and a half. I had a miscarriage a few days after that. It meant a lot to me to know that he wanted to take responsibility for a life he didn't help create. That was about four years ago. We're expecting our first child sometime in June and couldn't be happier.
2006-12-28 16:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by JoshsGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that dated a girl that was pregnant...and it wasn't his. Of course, by the end of the pregnancy, he pretty much claimed it as his. I think it takes a strong person to do something like that, to step in like that. Some people, of course, talked about them all the time, but that is going to happen.
2006-12-28 15:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Denise D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my ex did. Not sure if i would classify his actions as sweet however, he is one of those guys that preys on the poor unfortunate girl that seems lost in the world. Not saying that all pregnant single females are like that, but this particular one was and is. It was his way of finding someone else to abuse.
2006-12-28 15:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know a lot of people who have and I think it is great that people are mature enough to look past that and support one another. As for me I would feel to much like a whale and preoccupied with baby to be interested in having a new relationship.
2006-12-28 15:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by cliffhanger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother married and woman who was pregnant with another mans baby..The marriage didn`t work out but he did adopt him and raised him and their other two children on his own.(with my mothers help)..
2006-12-28 15:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes my friend married his wife (now ex) which was pregnant with another mans kid. Now he wants to date me. Im pregnant but not with his kid.
2006-12-28 15:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Armygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not...you have the freedom of meeting new people and probably you find someone that can help you with the baby
2006-12-28 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Turn and run in the other direction and as far away and as fast as possible. Too much baggage. Complications will arise.
2006-12-28 15:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
yeah....a guy i knew...he's the kind that always wants to help people so i wonder if it has something to do with it.
2006-12-28 15:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by texascomet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋