that my two closest friends and my cousin are engaged and I am not even though I have been with my guy a lot longer than they have been with their guys?
2006-12-28 14:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe the guy you are with does not want marriage.
Maybe he is the wrong guy for you.
Maybe they are jumping into marriage too quickly and will suffer for it later.
Maybe they don't realize that they are not in "love" and are just in "lust" with their fiances.
Don't feel upset or sad. Be happy for them and support them. Your time will come. It may be with this bf or it may be with someone else, but don't rush into marriage just because others are getting married.
2006-12-28 15:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for them. If you want more from your relationship, talk to your bf. Don't do it just because your friends and cousin are. Maybe you'll take a little longer, that doesn't mean your relationship is any better or worse. Do what your heart tells you. If you think you are in place in your life that you are ready to spend the rest of your life with your bf, then talk to him. Find out where his mind is at. You have a right to know. Some men never want to get married.
2006-12-28 14:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its human nature to want what we see...if everyone else is engaged, its natural that you would feel a little blue but these are friends and family -- you love them, so be happy for them, cause your time will come too.
2006-12-28 15:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by necessat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl lemme tell ya, a piece of paper dont do nothing but take military benefits away if you are receiving them. Once you file that official piece of paper, if something happens to you, he gets it all, you will lose any benefits from a former husband, and if you this one split, you back on the work lines struggling again.
2006-12-28 15:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on it is not wrong sometime it help, but the best thing to do is to talk to your friends and cousin and make them understand with yours guy friends always understand.
2006-12-28 15:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by prue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nothing wrong about your feeling. I would suggest you to talk about it with your boyfriend or speak to someone you trust, even a relationship counsellor.
2006-12-28 14:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rainy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything will come in time. just be patient you can't rush anyone. you just have wedding fever. are you younger than them- that could be why. your guy could be scared and just waiting for the right time.
2006-12-28 14:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by akc6763 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for them, congratulate them and pray that it will be your turn next, it must be a test, so how u respond to all this will create your future. good luck
2006-12-28 14:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty normal, try to be happy for them though your time will come. ;)
2006-12-28 15:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for them, you will have your day too....God bless ya
2006-12-28 15:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋