I go out sometimes but they always want to to go the same place. Plus I like alone chill time as well, any advice?
2006-12-28 14:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WOW. I have the exact same problem. I used to hang out alot with my friends, but recently I stopped. I mean, 'll still hang with them and all, but sometimes I feel like not going, and chill by myself.
Then, one of them told me if I don't want to hang with them anymore, they'll stop calling me to go out. But I don't want that. idk
I guess you (and me) should tell them that sometimes being by yourself is okay, and being with friends is good sometimes..just not ALL the time. doing the same stuff.
Let's move on? or not? I'm trying to get back to my friends..I don't want to lose them.
2006-12-28 16:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by HiLovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm, if you continuously decline to go out with them. I believe sooner or later they will forget about your "existence". They won't give up on you, but they will not asking you to join them anymore because they might "expect" that you will not join them, then, what for they want to waste their times to ask you to go out! Am I right?? !! If you really don't want to go the same place, let them know. Or you can give other good suggestion for them.
You are not stay alone on the earth, sometimes you should go out with you friends. ^_^
2006-12-28 23:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Melon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell them? Be honest w/ them. If they truly care about you, they will do some things you like sometimes. Compromise with them. Ask them to your house for a game night thru the week. Cook them brunch on Sunday. Ask them to try a new place with you, even just once.
If you really love your friends, you'll compomise for them too.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 23:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Josi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. You gotta give a little, you gotta take a little. It's cool that you want time for yourself, and you should make the time. But in order to keep your friendships - you to need to spend some time with your friends.
2006-12-28 23:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by justanother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I have the same problem so i'd love to see some good answers.
2006-12-28 22:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends NEVER give up on each other!
2006-12-28 23:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by MARISSA!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To thy own self be true.
2006-12-28 23:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey =) this isn't pertaining to your question..but the answer you wrote on mine earlier.
i feel like i can't admit it to myself or to him.
2006-12-29 01:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by funlovin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they won't give up...
2006-12-28 23:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋