im 14[male] and i have a girlfreind. I had a wet dream that me and one of my freinds[male] were having buttsex. i woke-up and was really horny and i had ***. the next day when i saw him i got a *****. The next night i was masturbating and he popped into my mind and it made me even hornier. I saw him again and got really horny again. Now everytime i masturbate i think of him. The wierdest one is last night when i dreamt of me sucking him infront of everyone i knew. Whenever im with my girlfreind i never think of him. i just get really horny when im alone or with him. Am i gay? Am i bisexual? If you can help thanks. Please leave your email if you think you can help me with further problems.Please and thank you.
2006-12-28 14:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I personally think you're bi...THAT IS if your still attracted to your g/f... If not, you might be gay... But you won`t really know until you try it... if your that confused, you should break up with your g/f and expierement ( or go on a break)...
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2006-12-28 15:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its normal to feel the way you are feeling. If anything your probably bisexual. The same thing happened to me as a teen. There are some things you can do...One is to buy a dildo and use it to see if you really would enjoy sex with a man, that way no one will know but you and you could masturbate and enjoy a penis in privacy.
Or you can act out on your feelings and find a guy to do it with, but don't break up with your girl or tell her about it.
At your age no one will understand and it could get embarrassing.
2006-12-29 03:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so luck, I read a couple of articles about something like this. When you have wet dreams you have no control over what you are dreaming, and it doesn't mean that it is something that you (subconsciously or consciously) want to do.
You might be bi for all I know, but you might just think you are. If you had a dream that gave you a good feeling, wouldn't you be likely to think about it and it would have the same affect on you? Just wait a while, I'm sure you are straight.
2006-12-28 22:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are who you are. Don't try to put a label on what you feel. Just go with it and figure it out when you are a little older.
2006-12-29 07:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a 14 year old teen. EVERYTHING will make you horny at this age! Enjoy your fantasies and don't worry about it.
2006-12-28 22:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could be bi, but then again sexuality can be confusing for many people your age. Eventually you'll figure out your sexuality on your own. It'll just take time.
2006-12-28 22:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you could be bi or if your the dominate one in the dream you may jus wanna force him into a postion where you are in control but if i were you i wouldnt bring any of this up to ur g/f until u kno wats goin on
2006-12-28 23:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by HP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read the answer above mine. Exactly what I wanted to say.
2006-12-29 01:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by B 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny. I think your way to young to post this on a Public Forum!
2006-12-28 22:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
These dreams may be subconscious desires you haven't realized yet. You may have your bi side coming out.
2006-12-28 23:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋