2006-12-28 14:42:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dump his sorry ***!
2006-12-28 14:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that happened to my roommate a year ago (they had been together a little over a year) while they were living in seperate states. She forgave him and he moved in with us and the girl he knocked up had an abortion. However, as of this passed month, they broke up because he went back to that state and started going to college and cheated on her again. Crummy, it was with a 16 yrold and he's almost 22. The justification for forgiving him was that cheating is always the same whether someone gets pregnant or not, the hard part was that this particular time would create a permanent result.. eh plus the girl was a call girl i don't know so tricky. personally i'd have a stomache, spend a week trashed, make an oath to never love anyone again and see what happens to me as a non dater.
2006-12-28 15:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by mscac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a decesion really that only you can make. If it was a one night stand for him and you can forgive him then start picking out some babyclothes because he's going to bea daddy and you are goingto be a part of it. Either that or end the relationship on the fact that he full out cheated on you and now has a lifelong commitment to another woman.
I would leave him
2006-12-28 14:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by ADragonsGoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye and let him deal with his mistakes. One of the good things about him being your boyfriend is that you can break up and be done. Thank goodness you were not married! Just use the experience, as painful as I am sure as it has been, and learn from it.
Gain strength in knowing that you are not a doormat and you are far to wonderful and precious for any man to ever treat you the way he has. There is someone out there who will treasure you like you should be treasured. Now you are free to find him. Good luck.
2006-12-28 14:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would so Leave because by staying your saying it was okay for him to do that! and the other thing is if he got that girl pregnant it mean't they were HAVING UNPROTECTED S**!! and if he was still sleeping with you unprotected wouldn't you feel discriminated you can get STD'S for that kinda stuff and if he cheated with her how many other girls has he been with??? Like My Dad Always Said about my Mom" Once A Cheater Always A Cheater! " good luck
2006-12-28 14:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and find myself a good boyfriend. I would have trust issues forever. No body except someone evil deserves a cheater, you deserve better! Be smart and get away from him, cuz if he cheated that means he will do it again, get more pregnant and possibly give you STD's!! Good luck!
2006-12-28 14:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by livindead_zombie13 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him because for 1. he cheated 2. he disrespected me and our relationship and 3. he didnt have the good sense to protect himself, meaning if he got something, i could get it as well. Then theres always the product of his cheating, which is the baby, forever hanging over my head. i would not want to stay in a relationship like that because the trust would be completely gone and then theres baby momma drama that he didnt have when we began dating. so for whoever this advice is for, tell them to LEAVE HIM!!!
2006-12-28 14:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me! he got a girl in gr. 6 prego! wasnt really great at all! but what could i do? i wasnt gonna keep my eye on his 24/7. but after i found out what he did!? cuz i heard his friends talkin about how he was messin around with this chick and how he got her prego, i dumped him. havent really talked to him since. you really should not stay with someone who cheats on you and gets another girl pregnant! cuz then they really dont "love you" cuz if they did, they wouldnt be doing that in the first place. hope this helped. but the decision is now up to you. good luck
2006-12-28 14:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long ya'll been together. if u have a feeling he's gonna do it again just keep tabs on him(like calling him all the, stopping by his house at unexpected time).if he said it was just a one time thing try to forgive and it will be hard to forget.most people u ask are probably gonna say just leave him alone. but it aint that easy if u really love him. jsu go with ur gut instinct. hope this helps.
2006-12-28 14:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married but if I cheated on my wife and got a woman pregnant, she would divorce me.
2006-12-28 14:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to ASK? I wouldn't be using the term boyfriend anymore. I think he might get pummeled too. Or at least kicked in the sack.
2006-12-28 14:47:50 · answer #11 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋