My son and his wife are having problems, considering divorce. She kicked him out ,then wanted him back, and he returned home. She invited us for X-mas celebration.When we got there, she proceeded to confront him about an affair,was so difficult with us there. We choose not to interfere,which made her mad, getting her folks there, to irate him, and in turn, me and husband as well.She kicked him out again. Was not a pretty scene,we all said things hurtful. I am so sad as I haven't been able to return to see my Grandchild.
2006-12-28 14:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by stives51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Consider that neither one of these people are thinking very well right now. Your son is disrespectful and immature to have an affair and your daughter-in-law is angry and hurt. Strongly suggest that both of them get counseling, and stay out of the mess. Don't let your grandchild be a pawn in this awful situation. Get out of the controversy yourself, including apologizing for any wrong you did. Your place is not to defend your son, but to offer the grandchild a safe place to go away from the drama. If you can't do that, consider whether you are hurting the situation more than you are helping it. Someone needs to act like an adult for the child. Maybe it can be you.
2006-12-28 14:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are pretty selfish people. her for confronting him in front of you and keeping you from your grandchild and him for having an affair when he's married and has a kid. I don't even know what to advise you to do. it's a terrible position to be in. You should let her knkow that whatever happens between her and your son you want to be a part of your granchilds life. that;s about it
2006-12-28 22:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ella727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be prepared that you won't see your grandchild if they do divorce.
2006-12-29 03:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS A MOMO I WOULD CALL HER AND MAKES PLANNS TO GO PICK THE GRAND KIDS UP FOR A VISIT OR GET YOUR SON TO DO IT IN SOME STATES GRAND PARENTS HAVE RIGHTS TOO .AND SHE SHOULD HAVE KEEP THEIR PROMBLES PRIVITE
2006-12-28 22:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
divorce does not help anything going to church does
www.calvaryftl.org
2006-12-28 22:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by chip33302 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋