the situation is just that the condom broke and it's unplanned.
2006-12-28 14:26:16 · 46 answers · asked by la_gurl 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Have to agree with Marshall Lee here. You made the decision -- you have to live with the consequences.
2006-12-28 14:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by mrbush 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am pro choice....no body that answered this question can bash someone for having an abortion if they themselves have never been faced with the situation. I used to be dead set against it until someone I love git into this situation and had no other choice. If it happens once and that's what you gotta do then so be it it's people that go in for 6,7, 8,or more that I have a problem with. They don't know you and they don't understand that it hurts you emotionally too.
If it were me and I had to choose I would have an abortion before I would give him/her to someone else. That may sound selfish and everybody's entitled to their opinion but I couldn't stand the thought that I had a child..a part of me out there that I can't have. You do what's best for you and don't let bullies make you decide on something you're not comfortable with.
And with all this talk about adoption there are plenty of unwanted babies out there that people won't adopt. You don't get to choose what you have and what it looks like the natural way would you really want someone looking at your baby and judging it like a pair of jeans.
2006-12-28 14:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I am pro-choice. I work in foster care, and I often see children who were products of parents who simply couldn't take care of them and it's very sad. If there was a condom involved, precautions were taken and you were probably taking these precautions because you didn't want something like this to happen- I applaud you for your responsible actions and have sympathy for your current situation. If you really feel like you couldn't give a baby a good life right now, than it's probably a good decicion. But also keep in mind that many pregnancies are unplanned, and if your situation is a stable one you may be able to give your child a wonderful life. Adoption is an option too, if you felt like you couldn't go through with an abortion but didn't want to be a parent right now. There are lots of people out there who aren't able to have children but are in a stable living situation to where they could offer your child a loving home.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-28 14:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by xxhalloqueenxx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm against it....9 mths isn't too long to wait to have a baby and give the kid a chance ....the survival instinct in all living beings is primal...it's no something we have to spend time thinking abt so why do we even start...raising a kid though is a whole diff story...it u were a teenage mum going thru this w/o the support of your family...then there's social services - hopefully there are some kind souls there besides your friends who will guide you on whats best for you...if you are part of a couple married or unmarried so what's the problem...life is full of challenges....deal with it..it's not all bad to not have planned for something...e.g. i didn't plan to meet my wife and look what happend next..my mum and dad didn't plan to have my bro..but he's our fav bro/son/cuz...hes so kewl!! planning is for project managers on the appretice...it's good if you did but you can make unplan things work out by MANAGING it well...and there's always God.Don't ever forget that and you'll be fine. The world is not a very good place to be in if you didn't have hope
2006-12-28 14:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by docKnowitall 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am of course against the killing of innocent human beings, inside or outside the womb. If you or someone you know is pregnant because a condom broke, you need to remember that it's not the baby's fault. The baby is completely innocent and does not deserve to die. For more information, see:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
2006-12-30 02:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
against! abortion is not a birth control method if you are going to be having sex then be prepared to possibly get pregnant.nothing but abstinence is 100% i am not lecturing you I was 16 when I had my first child. I WAS SCARED TO DEATH!!! It will be alright.I am 26 yrs. old now and have 2 sons. I love them dearly. You will Never forgive yourself. I can understand where you are coming from I HAVE BEEN THERE GIRL!! I also realize that if you simply do not want this child and are not ready to take this on, then you have options. BESIDES ABORTION!!! YOU DO NOT HAVE TO RAISE THIS CHILD BUT IF YOU ARE GROWN ENOUGH TO MAKE IT YOU ARE GROWN ENOUGH TO ATLEAST GIVE IT LIFE. Please consider my advice.I dont mean have it, and let it live a life with no love, or throw it away,or anything like that . Get some help right away and please do the right thing.There are so many people out there who cannot have kids who would be blessed to have this one. BUT you may find that you want this child yourself and make a wonderful mother. Who knows?. You may have yourself the best blessing you could ever imagine. I SURE DID!! what ever happens, I WISH YOU WELL.
2006-12-28 14:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by leelee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex, with or wthout a condom is still the act of love. This love can produce a child. The condom is a way of making love for recreation, but, the love you share is still a love that can produce a child. I am completely against abortion. When you make love, the person you are with should know this.....far in advance. Way Far In Advance.
2006-12-28 14:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by BudLt 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Pro-choice
2006-12-28 14:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Abortion is fine if you and the dad is fine with it too.Some people do not need the stress of bringing up a child with no money to feed them.Or if the mother new before hand that the dad was a drug addict then do it.Do not put the child though that ;they become already addicted to drugs before they are even born.That is a couple of reasons that i no why people should have a abortion.
2006-12-28 14:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am pro-life with the exception of danger to the mother. I am absolutely against abortion because the baby is an inconvenience or mistake. There are plenty of childless homes that would be more than willing to adopt unwanted babies.
2006-12-28 14:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Pro choice.
2006-12-28 15:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋