Can a man get so much oral that he will start to say no to it? Or just say he would rather have intercourse, and no oral. May sound like a joke but its a serious question.
2006-12-28 13:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by cuetee220 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
whether it is oral or a hand job, it can actually become uncomfortable to continue stimulating a penis well after ejaculation. it's awesome during ejaculation and afterwards for a short while, but eventually, the pleasure turns to discomfort.. if your man needs a break, let him rest a bit and he should be ready for more soon. the older the man, the shorter break is needed, at least that's in most cases.
intercourse, well, a man decides when to stop, so that issue is moot.
if this question was more along the lines of general preferences, well, to each his own. some guys love oral, some don't.
2006-12-28 15:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it...guys are lazy and we want the most out of sex without doing a whole lot of work. If he would rather have intercourse over oral sex, it is not uncommon that he finds the sensation of having sexual intercourse greater than oral sex. He may also be a little embarassed to admit this. Next time try asking him exactly what he wants while performing the act of oral sex. Tell him to guide you through the motions. Different guys have different turn on spots. If that still doesnt work, just stick to what you can both enjoy.
2006-12-28 14:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean too much oral at one time, I guess that's possible because the head of the penis is very sensitive when stimulated. Now, if you mean too much oral instead of intercourse, that's another question. I do want to have intercourse and not just oral all the time. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE the oral, especially if it goes the 'full distance' every once in awhile. Usually, I have the enjoyment of oral PLUS intercourse because she likesthe feel of my erection in her mouth. However, nothing really satisfies the sex need like intercourse all the way to climax.
2006-12-28 14:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stnick 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me variety is the spice of life. I love oral, both giving and recieving, but I love intercourse, etc as well.
If oral was all I got, just like if I never got it, I think I would get a bit bored and want to engage in other acts of sex with my lady as well.
I hope this helps!
2006-12-28 14:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like normal sex over 90% of the time, cause I can get it all the way in.
Oral once in a great while
2006-12-28 14:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you love choclate cake.........would you eat it every day....every meal..........the desire for it decreases with the more cake you eat.
All guys have a different preference.....but variety is the answer...
Oral....not all women do it well....its kewl they try and you let it happen...but if your skills are not best...then he will seek more intercourse.................
Your either or statement does not sound like you open to sex...more like want to decide on your own what the rules are to be....if u prefer oral.....do it during a shower...the hot tub...a pool..the beach for a little excitement to the actvity.....
intercourse............do it standing up....on the kitchen table...be on top...............
dont let him *** by pressing on the sperm tube....he comes but no load..........then go again............get creative..........boring lover don't last unless long....the sex stops..or he get an additional honey (usually his last lover) .......or moves on...............
sex needs to excite you too.....
2006-12-28 21:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should not be a big deal. Anything sexual is okay as long as BOTH of you want it, but you shouldn't try to push him into doing something he's uncomfortable with. And not all guys like oral, although most do. Hey, I know people who don't like chocolate. Just do what satisfies BOTH of you. Nobody should feel pressured to do something sexual that they don't like.
2006-12-29 00:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather have intercourse, oral is a little pleasure, and alot of stds come from oral, intercourse is more pleasureable and more safe
2006-12-28 15:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a individual choice. Or maybe the guy has gotten to much stimulation of his penis from oral sex just like a female can get to much stimulation on her clitoris.
2006-12-28 14:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by cameron lally cscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be desensitized to it. Too much of the BEST things
(even cxxk sucking) can get old from time to time. I believe you ought to just go with the mood he's in at the time and when he REALLY wants a little suckie suckie, you'll know.
2006-12-28 14:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by remlap47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋