I did an IUI last month and did not get pregnant. I feel like a failure. I just want to get pregnant and hope it happens soon!
2006-12-28 13:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by SusieeQ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
don't give up. i know it hurts to hear that everyone around you is getting a miracle but you . your day will come. i tried two years and got mine and when you get pregnant don't smoke or anything. my baby was diagnosed with gastroschisis and it broke me apart. i hope something happens soon. give it time. i know its easier said than done
2006-12-28 13:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by me_myself 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I just want you to know that you are not alone. My husband and I have been trying now for 3 years. We also just did and IUI last month that was not successful. I don't think I have ever been more disappointed in my life so I do know how you feel. All I can say is what everyone else says to me - just try and relax, try not to stress about it and it will happen soon. Don't feel like a failure because you aren't - it's not your fault. We had a beautiful little girl 4 years ago with no problems - I guess the babies come when they are ready, not when we are. Best of luck, I understand how you feel. I'm sending baby luck your way!!!!
2006-12-28 23:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ohsooocute 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a failure. I know how you feel though. We are going to try IUI next month (if I'm not pregnant this month). Good luck!
2006-12-28 21:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by raindrop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that some mothers really want the experience of being pregnant. But, you really should think about adoption. There are so many pregnant mothers out there looking for a good family for their children. You could adopt a new born and still have all the joys of having the child from day one. Also. I know two families that have adopted, and then months later, when the stress was gone, ended up pregnant. Stop stressing, relax and enjoy life.
2006-12-28 21:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Aww, hon, hang in there! I know it gets depressing and so frustrating. I have been there in the past. I had my first daughter who is 11 right now with no problems. Then I was TTC again and lost the baby. After that it was almost two years before I had my next child. Sometimes it just happens. You are not a failure. Sometimes our bodies just don't cooperate. I think my problem ended up being low progesterone.
2006-12-28 21:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand your feelings and I am right there with you. My hubby and I have been trying for 2 and a half years. We've done 2 IUI cycles--both failed. I hope it happens soon for both of us!
2006-12-28 21:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My friend was on her 3rd and last IUI prior to pursuing adoption, only had one egg, and is now 10wks pg!!! Miracles do happen!
2006-12-28 21:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by wmpenny99 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry I know some people that can't get pregnant and they went to the doctor and they are taking pills for it. Praying is also an option.
2006-12-28 21:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Camille 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not a failure...I mean things like this take time...it's when you expect it, that it doesn't happen...just be patient and it'll happen when you least expect it.
I wish you the best!
2006-12-28 21:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have been trying for over a year and i have had 3 miscarriages.... So i understand it can be very hard...... Hope u can get your wish.... If you think you cant talk to your doc about how u feel
2006-12-28 21:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by heatflora 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋