how can i make it clear that ive changed?help me!?

Question

well we have been out of school for 2 weeks now and have bout half a week to go til we go back. One reason i dont want to go back is everyone thinks of me as a little kid. like i have ADHD or something(i dont). i act goofy and hyper. But when I go back i want to act more mature, and flirt with the boys more. Im so tired
of people thinking that im weird and crazy. any ideas on how to do this, and make it clear that ive changed?

i apoligize for bad spelling cause im mad and in a hurry. thanks.

i have changed that is the point, kinda.
Actually the way they think i am is the way im not.(?) im really not like that, i dont know how that image started, im more wild and dangerous.lol. but noone knows.

Answer 1

Sweetie I am a very,very grown woman and people still tell me that 'I am so Crraazzy!" I take it as a compliment. I used to feel self concious because I was told that I laughed too much. Now I understand that God gave me that ability to laugh cause believe me - it has kept me sane and alive in my life. I am now one of the first people they want at their parties or get togethers...you know the kind that the party won't start until you get there. Come to find out my personality worked well with what I do...I sing! I sing on CDs, at weddings, funerals in churches with bands-yu name it! and now I 'm label as a people person, the type that don't meet strangers. You can also tell by how much I write...Well you should see how I talk. I'm AMAZING!! People percieve what they see. Although we think or feel some image about ourselves, it's what people see that they believe and form their opinions on. As for me, I am very comfortable in my skin because I'd experience enough of life to not care what someone thinks about me because they don't pay my bills and probably wouldn't offer if they heard I needed it. People see that in my personality and have to accept it because "it is what it is". This is the life and personality you were given and you should never allow anyone to have a say so over it. You are to obey your parents and those over you though. I have no doubt that you are trying very hard at an image or personalitiy -it just may be that you are not fully 'baked' yet. Give it time and in the mean time learn to love yourself and enjoy yourself and if you see that you could get better in an area then be mature enough to put an effort to it. But do none of this to impress others but as personal needed goals set by you. Just learn to respect others and their needs and rights and I don't doubt that you are going to be a wonderful YOU when you're done!

Answer 2

Your question details have me so confused about who you are, or, are not, that I haven't a clue what you are all about. In fact the person you are describing, I don't even want to know. Get real. Sooooo~~~
I will say this, Be yourself if you want friends. Other people do not like fakes. If you are hyper, try to find out what it is that makes you so and work at taming that. You can get on some peoples nerves and don't talk all the time.Other people like to talk too !Don't gossip about anybody, just refuse to do it.
Be a friend and once more BE YOURSELF.
HAPPY NEW YEAR make and keep your resolutions ! OK

Answer 3

The best way to change is to not care what people think. Of course that is something you will learn over time! But you can start now ... go into school with your head held high, and make little positive changes about yourself everyday. If people are making negative comments, ignore them. You will be stronger because of it. Good luck!

Answer 4

Did you change for yourself or to attract more friends? If you made this change simply to be more popular, you are only going to end up with people you wouldn't want to be with in the first place. You need to be in relationships--friends and lovers-who like and respect you for who you are. "To Thine Own Self be True!" And go watch "Mean Girls"

FYI-I was a "goofy/hyper' girl who married a laid back southern boy. We've been married for 20 years. Enough said!

Answer 5

Just Act more mature. And dont drink too much cofee in the mornings. I know how u feel. I just focused most of my energy into something and then i dont have any energy left to goof around. Nd most guys like girls with a sense of humor. But dont act like u just got wasted.

Answer 6

I have the same problem. At the end of the day, people like me because of it, or they don't. If they don't, then screw them.

Tone it down a bit and act a bit more responsible. But don't change a lot. Not for anyone.

Don't try to impress people by pretending to be something you're not.

Answer 7

Change of appearance is #1. More conservative dress, hairstyle, makeup all go a long way to projecting the image of maturity.

Answer 8

Honey, actions speak louder than words. When you want to change something just keep on keeping on and eventually people will believe the new you.

Answer 9

Actions shall be the part on your part to prove you have changed be cool and more reserved and dress a bit differntly than you did and maybe cut or change your hair style and be a bit quiter,,,,You have to prove you have changed by your actions.

Answer 10

Dont tell people you have changed, let them see the changes in you, actions speak louder than words>>good luck