ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half and we have been argueing alot and whats so bad is i could be pregnant so i dont know what to do ...what can I say to him to get him to igknowledge the fact i could be pregnant so we can make it through and quit arguing is there anything i could say to him??
2006-12-28 11:29:30 · 13 answers · asked by Loving his kiss 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ummm how about "hey hun, you didnt wrap it so I might be pregnant!?"
You need to let him know there might be a chance so you can get through this together.
I dont know about the arguing and stopping it. Good luck with both!
2006-12-28 11:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him you may be pregnant and that's one reason you are stressed out and you really need him to be there for you. I hope he will. If not keep your dignity and do what you have to do. It will turn out in the end it will just take time and some heartache but, you will be ok. If he is a good guy he'sll come around and that may take a while. Give him a little time. Remember it's actually happening to you, you can't run but, he thinks he can for a while anyhow. i wish you luck and love.
2006-12-28 19:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not a lot. However, IF you are pregnant you should not only tell him but get him to go to counseling with you (and then parenting classes). You already know that a pregnancy will change your life forever and both of you are responsible for the upbringing of the child unless you choose to place the child for adoption.
2006-12-28 20:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..this is not easy to go through..but u need to tell him...Now the question is how to go about telling him?First thing first...solve the problem u guys had earlier on...give yourself wrong..just to get him back on tract with u..cuz when u gonna tell him u're probably pregnant u don't want him to disappear or having order thoughts.So u go slowly working out u guys problems.When it is solve and u guys have understand you'll problem..ask him out.Or talk to him..it has to be face to face..and tell him that its a possibility that u may be pregant.Goodluck..and Happy New Year!!!
2007-01-01 14:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight up tell him that your possibly pregnant with his child and this isnt something you can deal with when you may be expecting. Let him know that and maybe he will calm down because of the baby..if not,then hes an *** and you dont want any bastard like him.
2006-12-28 21:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by xxluvsickbabigurlxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if you are pregnant or not as soon as possible and if he is the only one you had sex with you need to tell him.
You will also need to tell your parents and his if you are pregnant.
2006-12-28 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything until your sure weather or not your pregnant cause if you are he may be not ready and be scared and if you aren't get birth control and dump him
2006-12-28 19:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Frankie S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would recommend finding out for sure 1st beacause if your not and he finds that out later it could start even more arguing or even lead to him accusing you of being a liar
2006-12-31 13:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come straight out and tell him or hand him the pregnancy test thats how i did it
2006-12-28 19:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Katy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't ever use a pregnancy as a weapon to keep someone or to make them go. Tell him you may be fine, but if he jets, don't be surprised.
2006-12-28 19:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋