I really like this guy but i don't know how to get him to notice me! my friend asked him if he woukd ever go out with me. he told her he wouldn't go out with me because we were good friends. how can i make us more than that.
2006-12-28 11:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by canesbabe93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he acts like he likes me(he always sits by me, tries to annoy me, calls me a lot, etc.) but he is really shy so he never really says when he likes someone.
2006-12-28 11:30:37 · update #1
Give subtle hints of your interests, nothing in your face, and not too quickly.
If he catches on to the hints, he may change his opinion of you. However, if you blow up in his face about it, he may not like it. If your hints don't work, then I'd move on and try to see other people. It's better to have a friend than not to have one!
Good luck!
2006-12-28 11:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by theVisionary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start flirting with him and go from there or start wearing a new perfume or body spray. wear something he likes make him notice you. play hard to get. get him a random present . or if that doesnt work im sorry but thse are the things i did and i've been with my boyfriend for three years. another thing is to get him alone or make your room a place where he feels comfertable and you make the move dont let him not see you belive me i tried to get with my boyfriend for six months and i tried the conventional means what ever those are and they didnt work so i talked to my friend she recommended the tips above and they worked i know who ill be with for the rest of my life. one more thing make your friendship a little spicy by taking salsa or tango dance lessons they involvo close contact and a heated passion between eachother and a new found level of respect and trust try those and let me know how things turn out ok.
2006-12-28 11:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by amber g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best way to get the point across is to come right out and SAY IT! Guys are just as confused about this stuff as we girls are, and he probably would like to know the truth about how you feel. What can you lose? If he doesn't want there to be more, you can chuckle and say, "I was just checking to see where you were coming from.." Good luck!
2006-12-28 11:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by martiismyname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not likely that you will ever be more than friends if he gave your friend that type of response. I think it's time to move on. You can't force the issue. If a guy really likes you, he will let you know. If he is too shy to let you know, you don't need him anyway.
Sorry
2006-12-28 11:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, give him time. and don't try to hard to make yourself noticeable. (but i'm just saying if you make yourself too noticeable you might make a fool of yourself)
hang out with him more, alone or with a group of friends so it won't feel akward toward each other. but don't wait on one guy forever. theres other plenty of guys you haven't met. trust me. i know its easier said than done but it true. dont be to hard.
but just look on the bright side at least he said that you two are good friends, its better than not being friends. i mean who knows if you show your feelings toward him and in time he might feel the same way about you...just not now. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain!!! well GOOD luck girl =]]] hope everything work out for you and that one special guy!!
2006-12-28 11:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by xoluckyduckxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with him a lot more and as you guyz get to no each other hell get to like you more and more and you cant rush someone to like you just hang out with him more
Good Luck n best wishes!
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2006-12-28 11:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie47 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant... just let him go apearenly he doesnt wanna date u so dont forse it!!! then he might not even what to be friends with u!!!! move on, theres other guys out there who would want to date u, just wait and see!!!
2006-12-28 11:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by nicoleaase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.
2006-12-28 11:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋