My dad is divorcing my mom (no reason besides him trying to make her change....again), and he won't leave the house. There is so much tension going on that I have even had to see a psychiatrist. I have told him a countless number of times that I don't feel comfortable with him in the house, but he always mumbles something about how this is my moms fault. There are 3 kids in the house besides me, and he is trying to make us choose "sides." He is trying to make this into some sort of competition mom, and it is driving me insane. What makes me get depressed about this is about how he was never involved in my life until now, a divorce, and he's only doing it so that he can try to gain custody of all four of us. He doesn't even see us as people. He sees us as possesions. What should I do? Has this happened to anyone else? Is there any way to get him out of the house? (he is only there because if he left, it would mean that he did something 'wrong')
2006-12-28
11:23:13
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I couldn't fit all of this in before:
Even if I wanted to side with him, I just couldn't. I'm not trying to choose sides, but he has never actually acknowledged that I am his daughter, he never calls me by my name, he has never gone to a single one of my concerts (I play viola), he abuses my brother and threatens us to not call the police because he is the one paying for our education, he is making my mom who is a stay at home mom pay the morgage, and goes on dating sites and tells us all about the people he meets. How am I supposed to live with this monster?
2006-12-28
12:03:41 ·
update #1