Have you ever wanted to change something to make yourself more beautiful and you know you can? I have a problem where i want to do something to change how i look, its kinda major and im afraid that people will notice and in a bad way. like they will know i got rid of something....?any advice?
2006-12-28 11:15:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Well, if it makes YOU feel good than do it. I know you might not like want people think at first when you make a change but you will get over it. Confidence in the way you look really helps you to get over others opinions of you because you value your own since it is good. And, when you convey a more confident attitude, people are usually deterred from thinking negative thoughts..... or at least sharing them with you!
I am one for major things, I added something major to myself, didn't take anything away. It was something I felt I was missing and I wanted, now that I have it (or them), I feel complete as a woman and I love my body. When I first got them I was really shy and was afraid of what older or more conservative women would think, but now I am over that. Everyone likes boobs lol.
2006-12-28 11:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change anything about yourself unless it's getting in your way (eg. a big nose) because if you change yourself, that's you telling God that you don't like the way He created you. If you are different than other people, well, that's what makes you unique.
2006-12-28 19:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Claudia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, and thats when i donated all my hair to locks of love and had the "halle berry" look. i was so scared, but then i did it and i was the hottest thing to hit rural PA, i felt so good about myself. i knew i had to change something, im glad i did what i did, my whole outlook changed, and i even got a better job! good luck!!!
2006-12-28 19:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by moogwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases people did themselves worse by changing their look beauty is in the hands of the beholder.If your mate is happy with what you look like then the heck with what others have to say.
2006-12-28 19:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know exactly what you are talking about.
Is there any way you could do this gradually?
If not, then just go and DO IT.
Think of some clever way to respond if people ask questions.
If it makes you feel better, go ahead!
2006-12-28 19:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by blankstares 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what will make you happy. If you're in doubt forget about it.
2006-12-28 19:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_natz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout what other peole think, if you do that you will never be happy
2006-12-28 19:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by blackbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋