i've been cutting myself for two weeks now. i'm trying to stop but i can't. im trying to b happy. to make myself happy but it's not work. i used to eat when im depressedd and stressed out but now i cut myself. it all started when i had a fight with my math teacher and he transfered out from all my classes. i hate my class now. i had friends and great teachers in my old class. but now everyonein this class is dumb ( because they are lazy) and they are so bitter. they don't want me in their class and i noe it. they are so mean . this girl even hit me with a paper towel roll. at home, things are rough too. my mom gave my room to my uncle so i have to sleep in the same room as my dad and my sister. and the room links to my mom's room which is the only way to get out. i never get any privacy. everytime my uncle comes home, i hate it. i feel that he has stolen my room. my privacy. my dad curse at me all the time. even though im so used to it, i still find it annoying. and i compare myself to
2006-12-28 11:11:35 · 13 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
and i always compare myself to other thirteen years old girls all the time. i wanna die. cuz there ain't anything that i will miss. recently, i've had thoughts of suicide so im cutting myself. i really need help. and i can't tell my parents. i don't want them to know. they don't understand me. i don't trust them at all. all they ever do is curse at me and hit me. and they think i have to follow whatever they say just because they feed me and i live under their roof. im scared to tell my friends because i noe they would b scared of me. i don't wanna ruin my reputation. i have a great one actually. i always made people laugh and smile and i was happy at my old class. but now things are so different. i hate my new class. six hours a day every day with them. i just don't know what to do please help.
2006-12-28 11:15:14 · update #1
you need medical attention. any other advice is WRONG. you have a disorder and if you do not go see a doctor and tell him exactly what is going on with you, you will not get better. if you let it get out of hand you will be in more trouble than this. you need to seek help before you scar yourself all up and have to live with all the gross marks. Go. Doctor. NOW.
2006-12-28 11:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, because you are asking for help proves that you want to live, not die. At 13 you are reacting to the enormous chemical changes that go on as you transform from a child to an adult. You need to seek medical attention and counseling. You are not the first to feel this way and you are not alone. Here is a number for the Boy/Girls Town National Hot line, it is confidential and professionals are there to take your call to help you and can refer you to local resources.Girls and Boys Town National Hot line
Call With any Problem, Anytime
1-800-448-3000 (TDD 1-800-448-1833)
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The Girls and Boys Town National Hot line is a 24-hour crisis, resource and referral line. Trained counselors can respond to your questions every day of the week, 365 days a year. In 2005, more than 410,000 children and families were helped through the Girls and Boys Town national hot line, and over the past decade, more than 7 million callers have found help at the end of the line.
Please call and know that things will get better, they can help, please give them a chance!
2006-12-28 11:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by notaxpert 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
your getting some pretty good advise from people here, expecially the boys and girlstown hot line. call them. find a hot line to call. Dont even read the ones that give you wierd advise. Try focusing more on your homework or something that interests you, go to the library more often. Can you join any sports. Something to keep you busy. you are too crowded, but sometimes people have no choice but to live in a crowded home. Your dad and mom seem angry and because they have problems it makes you feel bad. dont cut yourself, it doesnt make you feel any better and it doesnt make the situation any better. Talk to a councelor at school who maybe able to help you to talk to someone. Are there any afterschool programs you can join? something to keep you away from the house but in a positive way.
Make your own little space where you sleep, with favorite colors or a favorite stuff animals, some type of symbol that makes it your own special place. put an imaginary circle around it to make it your own little space where you can be happy! Do something that makes you feel good not pain.
Praying cant hurt, but really try and talk to someone!
2006-12-28 11:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you suck it up and tell someone that can help you. This is a serious problem and obviously you want some help or you wouldn't have posted it on Answers. My mom cuts herself (since she was your age) and to this day, none of her four kids want anything to do with her. She is a total mess not to mention the scars all over her body. This has destroyed our family and I hope you will be brave enough to get the help you need. No matter what bullsh*t is going on, cutting yourself is not going to make it better, just add to your problems. There seems like a lot of crap going on but just remember that when you turn 18 you are out of there!!! You can find your own place and set your own rules. When you do this you don't want to look at your cuts and have it as a total reminder of a low point in your life. Get some help, please.
2006-12-28 11:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is NEVER the answer.
Just think that you are better than them..someday you will be happy and they will have terrible lives...muahahahahaha!
Your life is (obviously) not so great now, ans it seems that ur parents are oblivious...
honey, you have to stop cutting yourself. I think it could be because you want your parent's attention (don't take this personally..I mean like subliminal psychologically, not like you just want attention)
Like, try to do something else when you have the urge to cut... it will be hard, but you have to try. You have to stop, because if you don't then everyone else is winning. They are trying to take you down, and you shouldn't let them.
IS there ANYONE you can talk to? I mean, even some teacher or counselor at the school? I know probably not (the ones at all of mine in the past were'nt worth crap) but if there's ANYONE who could help you....friends? I think you said they were in other classes, just not yours...
Someone can help you. Just believe me.
2006-12-28 11:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by blankstares 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your crying out for help. You need to talk to someone at your school, if your unable to talk to your Mom or Dad.
I did notice in your questions you said that your 13 and 11 years old.
I have a 12 and 13 year old. I wouldn't let them be on Yahoo Answers.
I'm sorry your parents kicked you out of your room to give to your Uncle.
Try talking to your Mom.
2006-12-28 11:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Eye Candy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
6 hours with the same people? wow.
but anyways, cutting yourself is NOT healthy. no matter how bad i feel, i could not imagine cutting myself, wouldnt that make you feel worse?
that being said, sounds like you have some kind of disorder, and i dont mean that in a mean way. talk to your school's guidance counselor if you're too afraid to talk to your parents. but best thing is to talk to your parents, cuz they're gonna find out anyways. tell them how you feel, and let it all out. if they see how much you're hurting, they wont be mad at you for cuttin yourself.
2006-12-28 11:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, my heart cries for you. The people that truly know and love you know what a good person you are. Please, don't worry about your reputation. Go to a favorite teacher, Dr. Relative anyone whom you trust.
I know that right now you can't help what you are doing. Please reach out to someone. You are so young and have a wonderful like a head of you. Reach out.
You've made a new friend today ME! I'll keep you in my heart and prayers. Reach out to someone ASAP!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-28 11:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by lucyshines49 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If what you've written about your parents is true, "all they ever do is curse at me and hit me", then I seriously advise you to contact children's services, or tell a trustworthy teacher or other adult about what's occuring. If your parents are emotionally and physically abusing you, they are in violation of the law. No one deserves that sort of abuse.
2006-12-28 11:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey you need help. amd i dont say that to be mean or make fun. you need to see a phyciatrist or something. i know there is a phone number you can call and get help, and it is totally anonomous. i dont know the number but you could probably go to google.com and type in something about hotlines for troubled teens ( again not trying to be mean ). i will pray for you and i hope everything works out for you. just remember God is on your side and with him everything is possible!!!! God loves you!!!
2006-12-28 11:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by * Miss Thang * 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋