2006-12-28 10:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm bi and I have learnt from experience that it is best to be honest with your partner. My ex-boyfriend knew that I had relationships with women and found this exciting. However, when he caught my girlfirend and I in bed it was another story. He insisted it stopped. When he finally caught us another time he dumped me.
So, if I'd been open maybe it would have been okay.
I can only answer yes - it'll happen anyway.
My dalliance with my ex-girlfriend wasn't about love or being in a relationship it was more about sexual gratification. A lot of times that is what a "gay" fling is all about. So its okay.
2006-12-28 12:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A partner? Gay Fling? Wow, there's alot needing to be explained in here.
Are you this person's current partner? You're a man and she's a woman? She wants to have a gay fling before you get engaged/married? Or...?
2006-12-28 18:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I see relationships...anyone I'm with is perfectly within their rights to go & do whatever or whomever they want...I'm not one to stand in the way if that's what they want...that's my side of the bargain.
Now in return...I also have a choice & that choice is if I'm not happy with what the other wishes to do I'm perfectly within my rights to say I want nothing to do with it...this is one of those times that I'd be bowing out I'm afraid.
As for giving blessings to anyone to go ahead in a situation like this...their choice, dictates mine...
2006-12-28 19:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of WhitneyHouston: Ah Hell to the noh!!!!
2006-12-28 18:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Chica Creole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and no, he'd die first :P
2006-12-28 19:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by OziGirl_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way.
2006-12-28 19:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋